"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Situation at school

sanyo7878

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Hello all,

I apologize in advance for boring you with my story. (but if you do read it, pls advise and or give comments)

OK, So i had a class with this really cute chick about a year ago (I wouldn't call her hot, but she is extremely cute). Anyway, I had a big crush on her from the first time I saw her. I was a total AFC but managed to talk to her after class a few times and got some major IOIs (biggest one was one time in class she walked by me grabbed my arm and looked back over her shoulder and gave me this please come fvck me look). Anyway, like i said, I was a total AFC and never asked her for her number. Like 6 months later (after not seeing her much for that 6 months), I talked to her some on facebook and ask her out to play golf (i know, it was lame to use facebook)... and she never responded (big surprise...). So we end up out playing pool with mutual friends like a week later and i ask her when we are going to play golf and she gives me the biggest blow off ever. It wasn't mean but just an obvious blow off. I took this great and I still laugh about it with my friends. So I totally forget about this girl and move on. (I did find out later that some dude she kind of had a thing with was in the pool hall but not with us) Its been about six months again. I just started graduate school and she ends up in my lab group. I didn't ask her, she just joined it and she could have very easily joined a different group. This is going to akward for me b/c I had such a big crush on her and she knew it and knew I was a total AFC. WTF should I do? I mean I want to ask her out again, but i don't want to fvck up my school work. But at the same time i guess she could have joined my group b/c she wants me to ask her out or something. I don't know. Or she could have joined my group because she thinks i'm smart and want to mooch off of me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Biggest problem is that you "asked" her to join you for golf (which is admirable as I'm an avid golfer). You'll not ask her anything from now on. This is what you'll do:

1. Look her square in the eye.
2. Tell her with supreme confidence that you're going golfing and that it would be fun if she joined you.
3. Make it damned clear to princess that you'll be having a blast with and most undoubtadly without her. Make it her loss. Women love to be challenged and be the predator not the prey.

If she blinks fvck the b!tch.
 

sanyo7878

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bump and update.

I haven't asked her out or anything like that yet, but i have been getting some IOIs the past couple of days. (no major obvious ones, just minor ones)
 

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this time show her that you've changed a lot in a fuking way.. do not get into her never ever but play with her..be funny and dirty guy..

stay cool play with the pool
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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SELF-MASTERY

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Trapper said:
this time show her that you've changed a lot in a fuking way.. do not get into her never ever but play with her..be funny and dirty guy..

stay cool play with the pool
exactly

shed your nice guy skin...
 
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