"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Don't talk about prison to these women. Most want a bad guy, but only one that acts like it. They like fake a$$ bad guys, not real bad guys. Been there, done that, got the t-shirt. Revealed it once, the woman jetted so fast I think the door is still spinning from a few years ago. Tell them happy, positive fluffy stuff. You know clouds and gumdrops. They seem to like that, not real like and it's unfortunate hardships/mistakes in life.
I never tell anyone about it.

I wouldn't ever have to if it wasn't on Google.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I never tell anyone about it.

I wouldn't ever have to if it wasn't on Google.
Go by your first and middle name, drop the last name. Get a second #, such as Line2 or Google Voice. Also, use a service like Abine's Delete Me to scrub yourself from the many places on the web. Citicard will even give you credit cards in your first and middle name as authorized users. Thus, all fits. Just don't show them your State ID.
 
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Alcohol is so terrible.

I checked my pockets this morning and found a pack of cigarettes. Only 1 of them was smoked. I can't even remember the last time I bought a pack of cigarettes before last night.

Also, was going to work on my house flip today, but I just don't have the energy. Maybe later tonight I will.
 
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Alcohol is so terrible.

I checked my pockets this morning and found a pack of cigarettes. Only 1 of them was smoked. I can't even remember the last time I bought a pack of cigarettes before last night.

Also, was going to work on my house flip today, but I just don't have the energy. Maybe later tonight I will.
I gave up on drinking a while ago, started up again when I started school and quickly stopped when I realize how ****ty your motivation is the next day.

Side note. You’re my hero Richard you actually went out!
 
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I gave up on drinking a while ago, started up again when I started school and quickly stopped when I realize how ****ty your motivation is the next day.

Side note. You’re my hero Richard you actually went out!
I used to go out almost every day. It gets old doing the same thing.

My face is known in practically every bar in the tri-county area.

Now going out WITH A LAMBORGHINI... That's something I've never done. I just have to park it where the Hooters girls can see it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Go by your first and middle name, drop the last name. Get a second #, such as Line2 or Google Voice. Also, use a service like Abine's Delete Me to scrub yourself from the many places on the web. Citicard will even give you credit cards in your first and middle name as authorized users. Thus, all fits. Just don't show them your State ID.
You can scrub yourself from the net? Can anyone tell me more? Did some shady sh!t nearly a decade ago.
 

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I used to go out almost every day. It gets old doing the same thing.

My face is known in practically every bar in the tri-county area.

Now going out WITH A LAMBORGHINI... That's something I've never done. I just have to park it where the Hooters girls can see it.
So it can get keyed and scratched? You park that b!tch under a nice bright light; preferably where only one car can be on your side.
 

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Used to do it for a living way back when. Thus, a slim shady past. :( In short, yea, still possible.
do you have to pay
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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old posts on a forum from someone that expose my government name

also my very first youtube account that has my government name I made some silly comments, I haven't brought myself to google it in about 6 years, maybe they're gone? I did threaten the owner with legal action if they didn't delete it all but never bothered to check back
 

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A lot of guys on this forum have seemed to think that a guy in prison is the ultimate male to some women.
Some are. But generally they are serial killers who are NEVER going to not be in prison.

The ultimate bad boy who is forever and safely locked away.
 

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Life saver! Are they pretty quick to deal?

The youtube thing is not someone else it's me but I forgot the log in to that account...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Struck me how OFFENSIVE/inappropriate/rude it is to only want a girl for a hole in her body. This is what I've been getting used to with just escorts and Seeking Arrangement.

Idk if I'm on the right track here.
Holy s**t, I just LIKED a RichardTheFrog post. I go away for 2 weeks and I come back to find you're talking the most sense I've ever seen! This is great stuff, I mean that seriously.

Also, don't "try to commit to being socially normal"...you ARE socially normal dude, you just have to put effort in. Just try and talk. Forget sex and just talk to girls.

And quit the prostitutes too. It's so great to see that you're seeing women as more than just sex organs.
 
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