"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

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For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sites/Magazines with various clothing fashions

AmIAFC

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Looking for a site or a good magazine that showcase a heavy variety of nice clothes and ensembles, preferably worn (so I can see how they look). Nothing too flashy or preppy, specifically conservative/urban (e.g., boots, jeans, etc.).

Any suggestions?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

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Details and GQ are supposed to be pretty good. Search google for fashion tips for men.
 

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Well, be leary of specific suggestions on askmen.com. I showed some of the suggested clothing to women and they weren't too impressed. I asked a female friend to select three coats and I also had pics of their suggestions. Nearly every single woman I asked picked my female friend's suggestions over what askmen had suggested.

be leary.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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btw check out Timberland.com for the best boots. They also have a lot of other **** you might wanna pick up that looks nice. Not too flashy but still nice looking.

check out some GAP and Diesel jeans

maybe a lil bit of Kenneth Cole and Versace if you're feelin flashy

if you wanna see urban clothes being worn check out www.drjays.com
 

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loaded Fashion is an okay magazine. I hate GQ, Details, Esquire and every other American fashion mag.

Websites I visit frequently:
www.styleforum.net
www.superfuture.com/city/supertalk/
www.denimspy.com

Geoff over at ASF wrote a good post on dressing yourself. I think it's under "Complete Random Thoughts." He is better dressed than most people in the community from what I've seen and heard.
 

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"Nothing too flashy or preppy, specifically conservative/urban (e.g., boots, jeans, etc.)."

---I'm not sure if you prefer daygame or nightgame, but you definitely DO want to come across as flashy for nightgame. I've found some reasonably priced items here:

http://www.expressfashion.com/index.jsp

and here:

http://www.aldoshoes.com

Damm, Aldos are comfy. I just picked up some pimp Stacy Adams shoes also. However, they're not nearly as comfortable as my Aldo shoes, plus they're a bit slippery on the bottom.

That's just the tip of the iceberg. You want to grab an accessory or two such as a chain or necklace, rings, bands, and definitely don't forget to pick up a nice watch while you're at it.
 

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Very nice, fellas. I'm liking all of these so far. I need to up my jewelry and wrist watch game a bit, though. Definitely like how some of those styles are worn -- very sharp and not too "loud," if you know what I mean.

Keep it coming, guys. You can never have enough styles.
 

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I think there's a style forum somewhere, but it's a bit more mature (most guys are professionals/white collars in their 30+).


Askmen.com sucks d!ck. Their article submission requirements are low (you can bluff your way in). Even their own readers complain about the crap.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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