"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sisters Friends

Upthere

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How does a Dj handle sisters friends? Today I think one was leading me on while I was watching a movie with sisters friends. I initiated frienly kino, she responded well. Anything different. Or is messing with sisters friends playing with fire?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Soprano

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same as any other girl but you've already got the introduction and all that crap taken care of. but i'd imagine your sister will have plenty or embarrassing stories to tell.
 

ValleyDJing

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Soprano said:
same as any other girl but you've already got the introduction and all that crap taken care of. but i'd imagine your sister will have plenty or embarrassing stories to tell.
Not to mention some serious **** blocking intentions.
 

Upthere

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ValleyDJing said:
Not to mention some serious **** blocking intentions.
Yeah. I thought about that. My question should be more like this. Is it worth it?
 

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i hooked up with 2 of my sisters friends... one was her best friend. and my sister is cool with it she didnt give a crap at all.. haha. i guess i have a good sister, i thought she would just get a little bit mad, but she thought it was just really funny. im a HS senior shes a junior, so it ends up we have the same friends anyway pretty much
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ValleyDJing

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Upthere said:
Yeah. I thought about that. My question should be more like this. Is it worth it?
Hell yes it is. Its a god damn good story to tell! :rockon:
 
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