Sir Lancelot's DJ Bootcamp

[FOL!!!]

Jezus C....I tried some internet approaches you know. The ****y&Funny sometimes went a bit too ****y and I got some b1tchy replies back lol
Anyway, got 3 msn stuff going now. I don't want to spend too much time on it. One girl I already chatted to, the rest I didn't. but the girl I chatted with is really into me...pfft, unbelievable. She frikking mailed me today...1 f/cking day. How I was doing, she thought about me already and about some questions I asked and she really hopes I'm online more blablabla...so damn, staying mysterious and not responding to their questions and a little bit of ****y and funny...that stuff works! heh At least online...gotta try it tomorrow on a party if I dare.

 

[Sir Lancelot]

Week 4, Day 1:

Oh my god .. an approach from heaven came my way today guys

I always thought car pickups would never work, but I guess there's always an exception. My friend and I were cruising tonight, and I was on my way to his house. Some HB's smiled at us as we drove by so we were like heyo, and I pulled a uturn and drove up to them. We talked to them for like a minute, and then my friend asked if they needed a ride somewhere. I was pretty much EXPECTING them to say no, but they said sure. So they hopped into my car and I drove them down to the safeway down the street. These girls were HOT too, an HB9, HB8, and an HB7.

In the car we had some smalltalk about my car and what they drive. Both my friend and I were on fire, we're always hilarious around each other and we had them laughing pretty much the whole ride down the street. As soon as we got there they asked for our numbers, and we all proceeded to swap digits with each other.

What baffles me most here is two things: I didn't think car pickups worked. My car isn't really a showcar, it's a nice little '94 honda civic but it's no eye catcher. Second: usually in this kind of a situation I'd be nervous, but I was totally cool and confident, and it paid off.

My tally so far: 3 numbers, 0 rejections.

w00t!

 

[FOL!!!]

hah way to go!

 

[FOL!!!]

hello people... it's 4:30 am and I just got back from a party, still drunk, but oh well...I talked to a girl who is the girlfriend of a 'friend' of mine. I dunno him very well. But I started talking to her (when I already dran too much though). And after that, we started to call random people at 2 am from someone his phone. I think I spoke to at least 4 girls, but I'm sure I spoke to 3 and I spoke to 2 decently, allthough it were phonecalls. I just count 1 for it. No other girls there! For christ sake....

So my total is 2, but I got invited for a party on saterday, so I might get lucky there. Hopefully I can add some in the next few days.

 

[Hit]

Originally posted by FOL!!!
hello people... it's 4:30 am and I just got back from a party, still drunk, but oh well...I talked to a girl who is the girlfriend of a 'friend' of mine. I dunno him very well. But I started talking to her (when I already dran too much though). And after that, we started to call random people at 2 am from someone his phone. I think I spoke to at least 4 girls, but I'm sure I spoke to 3 and I spoke to 2 decently, allthough it were phonecalls. I just count 1 for it. No other girls there! For christ sake....

So my total is 2, but I got invited for a party on saterday, so I might get lucky there. Hopefully I can add some in the next few days.

heh... that brought back some fond memories from like 3 years ago.

My internet was down yesterday, couldn't post.. but uhh, nothing exciting, at all. Nothing to report on from this week. I notice that if i'm in a ****ty mood, i have trouble maintaining eye contact with people and obviously being friendly toward them.. this is exhibited by my contact with new people (ie people in the elevator, passing by). They would smile at me and initiate conversation, and all I can do is fake a smile and take a quick glance in their eyes. But uhh, enough about that - it's been a pretty ****ty few days recently. My birthday is coming up this weekend.. so we'll see what happens there. But once I get my mood up I should definetly be ready to go out and get rejected (while getting a bunch of numbers in the process) :woo:

 

[Sir Lancelot]

Sh*t, I've been hanging out with those girls I met a few days ago and COMPLETELY forgot about bootcamp. I realized I was forgetting something on my drive home today and remembered that I'm still in bootcamp. I'm going to have to do some sarging tomorrow.

 

[Hit]

well... im not sure on the progress in the bootcamp for the rejections.. but.. here's the story:

a few friends had some girls they were with, called me because they had an extra girl.. turns out when i get there that she was a porker. By the end of the night, she was a drunk porker. Now.. i dunno, i'm 97% sure that I could have at the very least caught head from her.. she was almost asking for it in my car.. but, i dunno.. i just couldn't do it.

It seems that typically, a problem with me has been the initialization of contact. Like if the girl is all over me, then great.. I go with that. But actually leaning over and kissing the girl or something along those lines i have never been able to properly do.

Like.. for example, even with this porker today.. shes in my car (it's us two alone) telling me how drunk she is, how shes doing for doing anything, and how she just wants to have fun.. I suppose i could have just whipped out my **** right then and there and i'm 90% sure she would go for it like a piece of fine sausage.. but would that be the proper action to do? I never really seen the topic in bootcamp anywhere, or in the bible.. and i just dont know.. Like for example.. in a past failed relationship, this girl was practically leaning across the table in love with me, playing footsie with me.. but i didn't act on it. I felt like a **** afterwards, but ****.. i didn't ****ing act on it. Would your advice be just do whatever feels right at the moment and **** holding back.. or what? I just dont know.

And uhh, as far as this fattie today (she did have HUGE tits though.. would have been fun to **** around with those) I was thinking about getting her phone # just in practice of the rejection excersize.. but then i figured that i wouldn't want word spreading through her friends to my friends that i actually asked her for her number, and I wouldn't ever call her anyway.

So.. yeah... advise me please.

 

[FOL!!!]

yeah, don't stop with BC because of the succes

Hit: According to Dav1d De4ngelo creating confusion wether you like em or not is a good thing (keeps them interested in you). They wonder "why didn't he let me suck him". But you also need to make sure you do give signals you like her. I interpretated his lesson this way anyway.

About the kissing. You can start 'wrestling' (I dunno the english word for it argh...if you 'pinch' someone in the side they'll laugh.) You could start doing that (if she makes an insult (as a joke) and this is your punishment. And when you do that, get your heads close. Watch her eyes, if you got eye contact, go with your eyes to her lips and go back up to her eyes, she'll get the message. (also de4ngelo's tip).

So don't be too greedy about kissing and stuff, it can make her more interested in you/wondering about you.


As for myself: party tomorrow, dentist today (hot chick there, bit too old though) annndd ehm. I certainly need to cut down my testing on the internet. I tried some dating sites to test my conversation skills (at least, coming up with idea's to talk about and such, in real life you also have to say them, tone differences body alnguage etc, but this seemed a nice beginning). But I have to cut it down, because I'm getting over 15 women in my msn (I created a new one for that sole purpose) and I don't have that much time and I don't want to spend so much time on it lol....But it's oke to practise for now I guess

 

[Hit]

that's actually some pretty great advice FOL, thanks!

as far as bootcamp... nothing really in terms of chances to try to get rejected..

not a bad weekend so far, hopefully going to get better with the sunday.. i'll try and get some bootcamp work in (given the slightest opportunity)

 

[FOL!!!]

Yesterday (and today, the night) was not such a great day for bootcamp, but a great day for confidence boosting and stuff.

I had a party and I hardly knew anyone (well, I knew 6 out of 30 or something). In the beginning I was sitting with the guys I knew and started drinking and within no time I was having fun with unkown guys and chatting up with them and **** and I tried to keep the conversation going. I spoke to 3 girls in total of which 2 of them I would date. But I didn't really get a 3 min conversation and one of those girls was after a friend of mine Funny thing is, he knew about this site and mentioned it once in the far past, but he forgot it. And when I said he did good with 'kino' (I really used that word) he said 'damnit boy, you know that site, give it to me, I forgot the url'
And I drunk so much (I feel a bit lousy now) but I actually started dancing. I never do it that way because I am...WAS scared what people thought. But yesterday I didn't give a ****, and I was just enjoying the night and dancing and damn I liked it so much to just screw it all. One chick was dancing behind me and we got eye contact sometimes and she asked after a while "are you only allowed to dance with girls from your group?" and I was pretty stumbled upon that remark...so I just grabbed her by her sides and started dancing very short. I didn't feel so good, probably due to all the alcohol, so I stopped it...which I regret afterwards, but I don't really care. The remark was a good boost. 2 girls were coming to me the whole time, but went away and came back and went away (where ever I went)...but they didn't get really close, so I didn't pay much attention to them (Attention *****s). And I had to get a drink at the bar and a friend of mine (it was his party) said 'go for the left girl at the bar, "this is her name" (andh e gave her name)....but I walked to the wrong bar

Oh yeah, my friend had this girl al over him, and de4ngelo said: talk about topics they normally never discuss...and the ****...they were talking about pooing and peeing...sigh :crackup: but it worked! She was into it haha.

But uh, I guess I talked to 4 women now in total? I really lost track here. I just go for a number close next time it suits.

 

[Sir Lancelot]

I haven't been trying too hard this week to get rejections, because I've been a little busy trying to get a job. I need to try to get a job before September hits. I was sooo close to getting a delivery job but got turned down because I have an accident on my record, even though I've gotten a deferral. Anyway...

I did get one "rejection". I was walking with my friends along these docks and I see a HB9.5 walking our way. I make a little eye contact, then say "Hey, what's your name?" She just looks the other way and never brings her eyes back to match mine. I know that we were in talking distance, and I was making eye contact with her when I said it. Even though this wasn't technically a "rejection" (I consider a true rejection when you ask for her # and she won't give it to you) I'm counting it as one since she didn't even give me the time of day.

I'm going school shopping tomorrow, let me see how many numbers&rejections I can get.

Numbers: 3
Rejections: 1

 

[Hit]

oh ****.. it's a good thing I just read your post SirLancelot..

I was about to post that nothing really significant happened in terms of bootcamp.. but I actually did get a rejection.

Me and some friends were by a resteraunt outside last night having drinks and there were a bunch of HOT hoes outside.. me and a friend go up to them to approach them, start talking to them.. I don't really remember exactly what happened, but they told us we weren't on the same level as they were.. something which obviously became apparent when we walked closer to them and it turned out they were probably in their mid 30s and not really early 20s like they looked from a distance.. so.. that was basically that.

:>

Rejection: 1
Number: 0
(and i'm not gona count any of the numbers that I go at class taking girls numbers down to copy a take home final off of.. i guess that would add 2 nmbers to that list. )

 

[Hit]

well, it's been 2 days.. no relavent reports.. not from myself or anyone else..

the prognosis: did we fail? or are we just too lazy that when we start seeing the first slight signs of success we succum to them and abadon the path that took us there, and the path that will take us to our ultimate goal?

I don't know.... but it is pretty apparent that we are not following through with the bootcamp schedule. Where will we go from here?

Speaking with regards to myself.. I havn't really been in any positions to follow through with the rejections as planned for week 4.. but that's no excuse as DJBC is supposed to be taking us outside of our comfort zones and making us do **** which we otherwise wouldn't be doing.. **** which led us to commiting to this in the first place. Now... you tell me guys : where do we go from here?

 

[FOL!!!]

I have no actual excuse. I was still doing that online approach stuff, but I've stopped all those activities except talking to a few. I hate msn lol.

There is a good thing though. I found a guy in my country (lol) who is probably going to be my wingman. Hopefully he can push me through all of this (and I can push him).

I know I really need to have a wingman at the moment. Argh I just have to get out and do this ****ing bootcamp. Still week 3, this is pathetic. I'm still in, but with some delay, I will not quit!

 

[Hit]

well, since this thread is pretty inactive, I posted my field report in a seperate thread to try and get some feedback.. here is the link:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&postid=745574#post745574

 

[Hit]

Originally posted by Hit
well, since this thread is pretty inactive, I posted my field report in a seperate thread to try and get some feedback.. here is the link:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&postid=745574#post745574

well.. this was a GREAT weekend. I decided since this thread kinda died out to create a seperate thread to at least get some responses to my reports... So... please feel free to look it over. And.. keep at it buddies.. you WILL get there. :woo:

 

[FOL!!!]

Hi, Let's keep this thread alive by just posting experiences... I'm not really into bootcamp any more, but I'll do it on occasion I guess

I will get out more and party, which should give me some practise.