Singles Party

[elemenohpee]

I'm going to a singles party tomorrow night, its at a nice pub and there is going to be 100 girls and 100 guys. Its a las vegas theme so the girls will be all dolled up wearing diamonds and feathers and all that crap, and the guys have to wear pin striped suits so it should be fun.

Now, because the girls know you are there for only one reason, what would be the best way to approach this?

1. Approach as many girls as possible or
2. Hang back and have fun and approach a selected few

Also as im a recovering AFC, i've only been on these forums for a few months and haven't really been sarging much and i'm just a bit worried.

Any tips would be great.

 

[rocky_mtn]

1. Approach as many girls as possible (and have fun)


Girls get jealous when they see guys hitting on other women. Where as most guys are looking at the women only and might check the competition in passing, women will be looking at both men and the women to size themselves up. When they see the guy who talks to all the women, they want a part of it. If you hang back, then they probably will wonder why you aren't taking advantage of the singles event. They are they because they are single and want to meet people, use that to your advantage and go get em.

 

[elemenohpee]

I suppose i can't really tease them about having diamonds and expensive dresses and all that because i will be in a suit? :S

 

[Fash]

Go with the c+f & subtle negs on the extra hot ones.

You: Wow, you are really sparkling with those diamonds and that dress. It kinda reminds me of..... (pregnant pause)..........(look at her and smile)........(she is now getting intrigued and curious)...... a Christmas tree!



You must do this in a funny and jokingly way.

 

[elemenohpee]

Thats gold lol, ill have to try not to go over the top with c+f though. Hopefully with all my knowledge so far, ill do ok.

Any more tips ppl? i might need them

 

[elemenohpee]

Go with the c+f & subtle negs on the extra hot ones.

You: Wow, you are really sparkling with those diamonds and that dress. It kinda reminds me of..... (pregnant pause)..........(look at her and smile)........(she is now getting intrigued and curious)...... a Christmas tree!



You must do this in a funny and jokingly way.

Can i use this as an opening?

 

[Fash]

ofcourse! What you are doing there is openning her in a normal and polite way, then going into c+f & a slight neg.

you can even use lines like, "i spilt wine on my dress as i was getting ready, so i had to wear this suit instead!" (But not as an openner, further into the conversation)

oh, if you are dressed in a black suite, white shirt.... if they ask you what you do... say "I'm a pinguin trainer"

 

[elemenohpee]

You guys are awesome, this stuff is great! I'll be sure to post the morning after.