"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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betheman

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Im over 35, divorced with an FB.
quite happy with that, so is she. Im happy being single, love my own space, if anyone every asked me why I was single, ID simply tell them that is not really any of their business unless they were prepared to enter a a very personal mutual Q & A session, if not, shut the f cuck up.
i dont like the restraints of a raltionship, the expectation to behave and act in certain ways, selfish? maybe but Ive got kids and a life as well, also I can look after myself, a realtionship 'gets in the way'.
I dont care who the questioner is but if they press, they better be prepared for some home truths
 
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I think the "single" state is not attractive, if you take it literally.

"Legally single" is something different entirely.

But, really, why would anyone be truly single?

We are quick to make the observation: Married men are attractive, why?

Because they have at least been "chosen" once.

Single (having no partners or plates in this context) has the opposite effect.

Question that springs to mind is "What's wrong with you?"

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George Clooney wouldn't be in this definition. Betheman neither, in my opinion. The article seems to miss that point.

It's like asking, why are betas hated? Because they are betas.

In short, nobody would call a guy who takes different girls to a dinner party "a male spinster" as the article is implying.

They would call him a "player, catch, womanizer," etc... all of which have much more positive connotations.
 
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Just lie and say you're divorced or that your wife died.
 
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