"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Single Vs. Open Relationships

Lookatu

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Just sayin that things have to go really well for a few years that i would let a woman move in and then there is no guarantee that things wouldnt change to the worse once she is in. Its a risk to take that step and the reward isnt that high for the most time.
IMO, the ONLY time a person should let a girl live with them that they're romantically involved with, is if you are engaged to them to make sure you two are compatible living together before taking the big plunge. Otherwise no other reason. My $.02
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mrgoodstuff

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Isnt that trying to turn a hoe into a house wife?
Well you know the old saying. So there was a story of a husband who instead of getting cucked like most in the scenario, he pimped his wife out on "onlyfans". That way she could live up to her "bad girl" desires and they could get paid.
 
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