"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HariPoter13

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Ze title may be a bit misleading but fuck it.

I want to know what's the single most useful piece of knowledge you learned about women from this site, from other people or from your own experience. So share that knowledge with the rest of us!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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gimmeyofonenumba

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ya first would would be to Not give a !@$% about anything...id say the 2nd most import would be to not listen to 99% of the people on here
 

nismo-4

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Judge nismo has an open-and-shut case.

It's in my sig. Read and apply it.

Case closed. Happy hunting.
 
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