MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Why??? So our esteemed government can hand it off to welfare recipients? The more these rich c0cksuckers spend, the more somebody else gets to make money, therefore the economy is stimulated.Serialized3 said:they need to tax these rich cocksuckers a lot more!
Problem is they aren't spending it...they are hoarding it away. No new Job positions, no raises, no incentives for hard working individualsspeed dawg said:Why??? So our esteemed government can hand it off to welfare recipients? The more these rich c0cksuckers spend, the more somebody else gets to make money, therefore the economy is stimulated.
Danger said:They do not have to spend the money to stimulate the economy. Saving HELPS the economy by raising investment.
It is a fallacious argument to say we need to consume to grow. We need to invest to grow.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
women haze said:If you are SAVING it meaning not using on anything just holding it in one spot...how will it flow?
Good point.Stagger Lee said:The government has no problem determining the minimum monthly amount in welfare a child needs to be supported who lost a parent or the parents are disabled. I'm pretty sure it is below $600/month. But when it's a father having to shoulder the bill, then the sky's limit.
Of course the mother is going to benefit from the money. It's paid directly to her, after all. If the money is paying for living arrangements, the mother is going to get to live there. If she buys them a meal, she will get to share in it.Any support over $300-$400/month even if the father can afford more is nothing more than a payment to the mother or alimony
Yes it is not even just about child support or giving money to the woman. It is really about punishing and victimizing a man who has a child. It's like if you want to excercise nature's perogative as a man to procreate, then we are going to punish you for it. It's really a violation of men's civil and human rights, on top of violating the constitution which calls for equal rights and protection. Men are effectively treated as less than equal to women. By making marriage and children too expensive and painful, the system is effectively preventing men from having a wife or children.zekko said:Good point.
And if the guy's unemployed (not unlikely in this economy) he gets thrown in jail for awhile. Then when he gets out he is ordered to get a job to pay the support, but now he has to find the job with a record.
But if the child support was based solely on half of the base cost (or even all)of supporting the child, which the goverment has no problem determining when it is paying, then there'd be no financial windfall or benefit to the woman. Of course the goal is really to benefit the woman and not the child. But as I mentioned, it really about punishing men, and forcing them to give resource to a woman and get nothing in return.Of course the mother is going to benefit from the money. It's paid directly to her, after all. If the money is paying for living arrangements, the mother is going to get to live there. If she buys them a meal, she will get to share in it.
If you have kids you are really putting your financial future at risk.
Pretty much, almost. It's a huge risk to take.Stagger Lee said:By making marriage and children too expensive and painful, the system is effectively preventing men from having a wife or children.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.