"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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espanish

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ok this might make me sound insensitive but does anyone else get pissed off when a woman uses the single mom excuse to gain an advantage?
like "I am a single mom. can you give me a discount?"
like excuse me but i am not the one who opened my legs.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Kdw8

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People asking for help doesn't bother me, if the woman with kids needs help or assistance I think it's better to ask than not too. But being entitled is a different story.
 

Alvafe

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ok this might make me sound insensitive but does anyone else get pissed off when a woman uses the single mom excuse to gain an advantage?
like "I am a single mom. can you give me a discount?"
like excuse me but i am not the one who opened my legs.
just say no and move on, waste of time to even think about it
 

SW15

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I think a lot of men give single moms a free pass on being busy because of kids. It is semi-warranted but there are women who take advantage of that. For me, as a childless man, I can't deal with the lifestyle of a single mom. Too different from my own.
 

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If I can help out a single mom, I might. Doesn´t mean Im gonna date her if I can pull childless instead.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Black Widow Void

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Usually, I write from my own personal experiences, but I've never had the guts to say either of the below remarks. I've sure thought about it though.

"Her: "I am a single mom. can you give me a discount?"

You: "I've never met or seen a single mom before. Did you experience immaculate conception? All the one's I've encountered were either divorced mothers, widowed mothers or unmarried mothers."

or....

Her: "I am a single mom. can you give me a discount?"

You: "I'll be glad to help you out (reach in your pocket and give her a coin)." "Hold this between your knees to avoid making the same mistake twice."
 
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