Single, Happy, but little to no sex

[Mike32ct]

I think some guys take the “be aloof / DGAF/ don’t simp / don’t be creepy / be independent/ have your own busy life” advice to the extreme such that they don’t even try.

I’m not referring to the OP. Just a general observation.

 

[Bokanovsky]

When you're at peace with yourself, living well alone, but missing sex, what do you do?

After 30, especially at that stage, most women are busy, focused on having children.

Everyone wants LTR, so it's impossible to find one simply to maintain a relationship, each in their own home, no cohabitation, just fun and sex, with exclusivity.

In this case, how do you find such a woman?

Remember those memes where you can only get 2 out of 3? (i.e. Smart, Attractive, Sane - pick two). Unfortunately, life is usually like that. Sounds like you already have your 2 out of 3. Nothing will mess with your inner peace and ability to live well alone like a woman. So you have to decide what's more important to you.