Single and Lovin it!

[GameTime76]

For those who read my last post. My ex decided she didnt feel the same about me anymore and left me. That was a little over 2 months ago. And I gotta tell you that I dont even care! Here is why;

I can do what I want, when I want. I dont have to worry about how she feels or thinks if I want to do something.

I have more time to do things and found myself doing things I havent had the time to do while in a relationship.

I don't have to do the boring things she wants to do.

I dont have to worry about what she is doing, who she is with, guys hitting on her. Basicly, the headaches and drama that come with a relationship.

I can flirt and meet all the hot girls I want and fvck them.

Basicly, I've realized I do not need a woman to make me happy. I'm happy hanging out with my friends and doing things that I enjoy. That is where my happiness comes from; not from a woman! Thinking back on my past relationships... The girl(s) I was dating didnt bring anything into my life to improve me or make me happy. Hell, alot of the things we did together were things I wanted to do or suggested. They just came along for the ride.

A woman can only offer you two things. A companion and p@ssy. Well, I already got friends. Which, I can have more fun with than a woman. As for pvssy, well, that doesnt determin my happiness either. Sure, its pleasurable but, there is more pleasures in life than just that.

I think every guy on here needs to stop worrying about getting pvssy and having a girlfriend. It is overrated! Stop worrying about what a woman wants or thinks cause, it doesnt matter. The only thing that matters in life is you. So, get out there and focus on yourself. It will bring more joy into your life than a girlfriend. Remember, this is a Mans world!

Have prioritys, goals, dreams, responsibilities, hobbies, friends. Get a job or further your career by taking some classes at a college. Doing these type of things will give you confidence, courage, social skills and all that good sh!t.

Women should be wanting to be with you because of who you are and what you do. They need to earn the right to be with you! Like Pook says; "Kill that Desperation!"

I've been a lurker on this site for awhile and it has helped my overall self-being. Thanks SoSuave! Anyways, just wanted to share a little bit of my new perspective on life and to possibly inspire some of you guys on here.

Good luck on your adventures!

 

[DonGorgon]

single is great if you have looks money personality friends and access to women for sex... it get difficult when you dont have those things...

 

[GameTime76]

single is great if you have looks money personality friends and access to women for sex... it get difficult when you dont have those things...

Sure, those things can help. But, I dont necesarily have all those things. What I do have is a sense of happiness for me and what I do. Any Man that puts his mind to something can have that dream or idea. Look at Cassanova; He put so much focus on one thing that in the end he got what he wanted.

What I'm trying to get across is that.. There is so much more to life than figuring out how to attract women or finding a girlfriend. Women will come and go and die. They can be replaced. Some things in life arent.

 

[Don Wha]

Completely agree with you. Being single is the great. I too just got out of a LTR and I feel so much more liberated and free. I also would like to thank SoSuave for showing me the Don Juan way of life. It really has put a great impact on my life and I can honestly say that I am happy with my life.

On a side note, for those who choose to be single, does it ever get old or does it keep on getting better and better? I've just been single for 3 weeks and each week has been twice as fun and exciting than the prior. Is there a plateau? I'm guessing that it wouldn't plateau if I wouldn't allow it to.

- Don Wha in the making

 

[DonGorgon]

Sure, those things can help. But, I dont necesarily have all those things. What I do have is a sense of happiness for me and what I do. Any Man that puts his mind to something can have that dream or idea. Look at Cassanova; He put so much focus on one thing that in the end he got what he wanted.

What I'm trying to get across is that.. There is so much more to life than figuring out how to attract women or finding a girlfriend. Women will come and go and die. They can be replaced. Some things in life arent.

actually no.. as a human male nature only requires you to mate with as many females as possible.. everything else you have been told to think is, well umm BS!! lol but think what ever makes you most comfortable during your time here...

 

[Scion]

The following is a quote from a girl I know (think it's very true for most guys) : "you don't need a relationship as long as your getting laid"

 

[AlmostThere!]

Being single is only great if you're getting regular *****. At least once a week.

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

Being single is only great if you're getting regular *****. At least once a week.

What do you know about getting azz once a week?

Being single is fine if you're confident, social, and happy with who you are without a girlfriend. Everything that people on here tell you to be, and you continue to ignore it like the attention h0e you are.

 

[GameTime76]

I'm not telling anyone to go cellibant. I'm all for getting laid and attracting women. For it is a great pleasure! Though, lets not let this overwelm us or consume us.

DonGordon says:

actually no.. as a human male nature only requires you to mate with as many females as possible.. everything else you have been told to think is, well umm BS!! lol but think what ever makes you most comfortable during your time here...
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But, life it's self is the reason for mating. There would be not point in mating without life! We only got one that is why it is so special. We cannot waste it all on a woman or some wh0re!

Men have better things to do most the time. And if you arent already you need to get out in the world and be somebody..

-GameTime76

 

[GameTime76]

Completely agree with you. Being single is the great. I too just got out of a LTR and I feel so much more liberated and free. I also would like to thank SoSuave for showing me the Don Juan way of life. It really has put a great impact on my life and I can honestly say that I am happy with my life.

On a side note, for those who choose to be single, does it ever get old or does it keep on getting better and better? I've just been single for 3 weeks and each week has been twice as fun and exciting than the prior. Is there a plateau? I'm guessing that it wouldn't plateau if I wouldn't allow it to.

- Don Wha in the making

Yes, it does keep getting better. Though you have to keep that good motivation up. Keep active and social. I've already been out with some dates with two girls through my social groups. They found out I was single and noticed a new change in my ways. One even complimented me on how "manly" I seem without my ex now.

Go out and do things, have hobbies, have a job, make new friends... Doing things a Man will do will make you a man. Thus, making women attracted to you. Cause, of you going out and experiencing life, doing things. It will give you social skills, help you over-come shyness, be more confident and ect.

 

[AlmostThere!]

What do you know about getting azz once a week?

If I knew something about getting ass once a week, I wouldn't be here.

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

If I knew something about getting ass once a week, I wouldn't be here.

Exactly.

So when you made the statement "Being single is only great if you're getting regular *****. At least once a week." you were being overdramatic like you usually are, correct? Because you don't know what it's like to get sex at least once a week.

Well, I do know what it's like, and sex is great. But there are other awesome challenges in life that don't involve sex.

 

[AlmostThere!]

Exactly.

So when you made the statement "Being single is only great if you're getting regular *****. At least once a week." you were being overdramatic like you usually are, correct? Because you don't know what it's like to get sex at least once a week.

Well, I do know what it's like, and sex is great. But there are other awesome challenges in life that don't involve sex.

Sex is part of a fulfilling single life. If I had sex once a week right now along with my great job, health, and everything else...I'll be very happy.

If I didn't have a job or health, but I'm getting laid...I'll be unhappy.

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

Sex is part of a fulfilling single life. If I had sex once a week right now along with my great job, health, and everything else...I'll be very happy.

If I didn't have a job or health, but I'm getting laid...I'll be unhappy.

You've never had sex once a week, so how do you know it'd make you very happy? You might as well say that if you had a unicorn you'd be very happy.

A lot of things are part of a fulfilling single life. Travel. Learning. Friends. Food. Sports. Exercise. Lack of one, does not eliminate the joy that the others bring.

 

[DonGorgon]

I'm not telling anyone to go cellibant. I'm all for getting laid and attracting women. For it is a great pleasure! Though, lets not let this overwelm us or consume us.

DonGordon says:



But, life it's self is the reason for mating. There would be not point in mating without life! We only got one that is why it is so special. We cannot waste it all on a woman or some wh0re!

Men have better things to do most the time. And if you arent already you need to get out in the world and be somebody..

-GameTime76

hmm well im glad you feel that good about life... i dont really like life at all it boring and i dont find its ups and down and struggles to be interesting at all.

yes i have education , job, money , car blah blah blah.... i dont want kids or wife,, soooo thats it... nothing else to say