"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Singing songs

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Hey I'm going to sing a song to this girl.

You think it's a good idea? I know girls in high school are crazy about romantic things and brag to each other about how romantic thieir boyfriends are and stuff haha.

1) yes, I can sing pretty well. not super good, but I'm not bad either.
2) yes, I can play the guitar pretty well.

it's probably gonna be one of those john mayer or damien rice songs.

BTW PENKITTEN/WILDFIYAH/OTHER WOMEN PUT SONGS UP HERE THAT YOU LIKE. New stuff only please.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Don't make it look planned, make it spontaeneous and she'll be all over you man.
 
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seems extremely risky, and cliche. didnt that queer in 10 things i hate about you do something like that. but you know this girl and if you think it'll do the trick then go for it. seems a bit afc and risky though.
 
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Hmm i wouldnt sing it TO a girl. It's to desperate man!

What you should do is get in a position where they will all see you sing by coincedence. Like a public display kind of thing. If your actually good, then you will get points ;)
 
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Originally posted by Sammo
Hmm i wouldnt sing it TO a girl. It's to desperate man!

What you should do is get in a position where they will all see you sing by coincedence. Like a public display kind of thing. If your actually good, then you will get points ;)
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Exactly! Like I said don't make it look planned and you are going to get response.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you do the public diplay of affection thing you may get lots of other girls attention too. As long as you don't really suck even if it doesn't work with the girl you want it to its bound to catch another girls attention
 
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No this will be next year.

Like valentines day, our school sells roses you can send to girls in their homerooms and stufff (white rose, pink, red).

The choir also has a thing where you buy a "voice mail" and it's basically a song you pick that they sing to the girl you buy it for in their home room during advisory time.

Anyways, I'm thinking, that's the pvssy way out. I'm going to sing it myself and play a fvckin guitar with it too. Like you said, if she doesn't appreciate it, I will at least get the attention of other girls....I'm sure she'll like it though. btw, yes this is the girl i'm trying to get outta the friend zone with. if it doesn't work, I can laugh it off.
 
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actually, I am going to try to ask her out first....
 
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Why are you making things complicated?

Ask her out, for gods sake!
 
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Originally posted by aftershock
Why are you making things complicated?

Ask her out, for gods sake!
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Giving her a little space first....hard times after break up you know. Plus I don't wanna be a rebound dude....:down:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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