Singapore

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Musik

New Member

Sep 28, 2006

Greetings to all my fellow Don Juans...anyway from Singapore on this forum? This place is like the DJs' version of Eliot's wasteland. Most all the guys here are AFCs and the girls are either pug-ugly and/or more conservative than your local Quaker community. (No offense to any Quakers who might be reading this, of course...) ~^

Would be interested in getting to know some peeps out there who wanna possibly meet up in the future to sarge or just talk shop.

Good health brothers.

Forever,
Musik