Singapore

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Musik

New Member

Sep 28, 2006

Greetings to all my fellow Don Juans...anyway from Singapore on this forum? This place is like the DJs' version of Eliot's wasteland. Most all the guys here are AFCs and the girls are either pug-ugly and/or more conservative than your local Quaker community. (No offense to any Quakers who might be reading this, of course...) ~^

Would be interested in getting to know some peeps out there who wanna possibly meet up in the future to sarge or just talk shop.

Good health brothers.

Forever,
Musik

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.