"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Since when was this cool?

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Groovy

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It was a good idea because you don't have anything better to do then talk bad about people in their back? I thought I was in so suave, a relax place, where people can come and take it easy, not to talk about negative topics.
 

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Groovy said:
It was a good idea because you don't have anything better to do then talk bad about people in their back? I thought I was in so suave, a relax place, where people can come and take it easy, not to talk about negative topics.
You first sentence made no sense. This is also the anything else section. Emphasis on the anything.
 

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Groovy said:
It was a good idea because you don't have anything better to do then talk bad about people in their back? I thought I was in so suave, a relax place, where people can come and take it easy, not to talk about negative topics.
A good idea instead would be to read your own post before posting it.
And theres nothing wrong in talking about light stuff only to relax a little, actually relaxing was what you did instead of reading your non sense.
 
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