"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Since Im here I have one more question

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I work with this girl and can't get a good read on her. One day she will flirt and be really nice basicly show all kinds of interest

The next day I just get a cold stare and one word answers.

She's the type thats friendly with everybody and has all kinds of guy friends. Any quick thoughts on this ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You're about to embark on a wonderful mind fvck with an AW Ryan.

These girls are dangerous! They'll have any man with a good amount of testosterone chasing them with their games. These girls will dramatize things to gain attention.

Women are more moody than men, but this goes beyond that. It is scripted. Show interest - take it back. The best one is when they look at your d!ck knowing you'll see them doing it but pretend you caught them looking.

The only way to win at this game is to play it better. Show interest - take it away. Look at her azz, let her catch you and don't show interest. If you want to play, then play to bang her. These girls aren't LTR material.
 

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Thanks tmpgstx, this makes alot of sense. It seems I attract alot of these types of girls any reason why that might be ?

These girls can pick me out a mile away like I have sucker written on my face or something.

Im a tad shy and laid back so that might be part of it. I dunno
 

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Live your own life and don't get dragged along by this girl's instability. She's using a classic attention-wh0re tactic by using push-pull. Instinctively, she's just testing you to see if you chase after her when she takes away. Remain true to your own integrity and refuse the bait. Live your own life, and if this girl is at all interested in you, she will come to you, not the other way around. Be a strong Alpha and don't let this AW make you sway.

-Damian
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Good advice.

I get the same BS from AWs. If you're considered an attractive guy by most girls, you're going to be an *attention* target. It's not so much that they want sex with you as it is the attention. The validation they get from you elevates their ego (especially when other girls see you paying attention to them).

Most AWs don't feel worthy of relationship with an attractive, decent and successful guy. It's not in their self-esteem. They are into drama and the laid-back good-looking guy doesn't give them that. They are also highly competitve with their looks so if they got a *hot* guy, feel the guy would eventually leave her because it's *her* (in her mind is thinking he'll run once he got to know her) and she'll lose her value.

This is why you see many AWs with average looking guy in short-term LTRs. They do however have alot of one-nighters with guys they find very attractive but not so *nice* - so the guilt is removed.
 

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hey tmpgstx, I asked your AI bot...

"Can you eat a piece of crap"
IT came back with..
"I know why you humans have so much knowledge, you experience new things almost every day."

Haha..

I also added a defination. "What is a bag"
 

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Thanks Docs! Keep adding those definitions. It's funny in viewing some *conversations* between the bot and people .. will come up with new things other people have taught it - developing a personality of its own - scary. It doesn't have a whole lot of knowledge yet, but the more chatting, the more knowledge it's getting.
 

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Originally posted by tmpgstx
Thanks Docs! Keep adding those definitions. It's funny in viewing some *conversations* between the bot and people .. will come up with new things other people have taught it - developing a personality of its own - scary. It doesn't have a whole lot of knowledge yet, but the more chatting, the more knowledge it's getting.
Oh dear, hide the link now, before masses of newbies try to describe love!

Haha! Interesting concept though.
 
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