"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Simplicity is the Key

iFEEL

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I am seeing how some people still have not evolved from the nerds to men. When they stumbled upon seduction community they thought they found a totally new world. But they only changed CHANNELS. They are still nerds. How many guys do still refer women as sets ? Guys trying to compete with you AMOGs ? Too many. They still see women as ****ing aliens ! THEY ARE NOT !

Women are just emotional beings! Do you want 4 DVD's on what that means ? How about a bonus SLAP AROUND YOUR FACE for a change. SIMPLICITY WAS ALWAYS THE GREATEST THING YOU COULD DO. Women are emotional! They do not communicate with logic, they rely on emotions.

And you can not get all the women out there. You can not persuade each woman into feeling what you want her to feel. Some are happy in a relationship and you will not be able to change her feelings at any costs. Others are not pleased with what they got. You are able to get those with ease.

And yet again you still want to over complicate things. You still need 10 eBooks on how to make women feel various different emotions. It simple! Simplicity wins again. You give her simple pictures. No need for 1000 words of details on a simple thing like "I own a cat that pretends to be Superman". It already made an effect on her because she laughed.

Have you forgotten that women are emotional ? I believe right now you were thinking how can I put so many different emotions into pictures ( words describing them ). You are using your logic again and yet again want to over complicate. You as a human are not only able to speak. You have your whole body available. You express those emotions with your body, with your voice ( tonality, pitch ), your facial expressions and your body language.

Nerds. They search for all those "negative internal beliefs" when they have the biggest issue right in front of their nose. They want to over complicate things! They want to make sex seem like an exam out of neurology.

What else do you notice in nerds ? That feeling of wanting to be a part of something. They see somebody cooler than them or somebody with something they want. And they completely turn to be his SLAVE. ****! They ask him questions. He knows they just want to complicate. He shows them the finger and then they turn all emotional and start actually CARING what he thinks. **** that! Stop caring what other people think. When you are making out with that girl in the mall IGNORE the people walking by. There is just you and her!

Be in that ****ing moment! Do not stop to go somewhere safe! Confront it and live with it! It is only those moments you have in your life. I have noticed so many guys enjoying in a special moment but in a minute or two they start thinking "when will it end ? it is too good to end ". Dude... be in the ****ing moment. Stop thinking. Stop analyzing. START LIVING! START ENJOYING! BE IN THE MOMENT! LIVE THE MOMENT!

Do not talk big game! Act! You do not have to say a word what you are going to do JUST DO IT! When you say what you are going to do or if you ask if you can do this ( do not even try do to that ... ) you are just seeking for approval! Do the thing! Do not ask! Be a man of action.

Screw theory. Screw philosophy. Simplicity above everything! Do not take approaching chicks as a physics test! Make it fun. You are not proving to anybody that you can pass the test. YOU want the girl not some random dude that wants to see you approach. So make it FUN for YOURSELF and for NOBODY ELSE. You are the first person you think about! Do I want this ? How can I make this interesting for me ?

Anything you try. Do not even dare to give up on it! Do not give up on your dreams ! Fail, fail, fail, fail ! You can succeed after one fail, you can succeed after 10 fails, **** it.. you can even succeed after 1000 fails JUST DO NOT GIVE UP BECAUSE YOU CAN DO IT! Never let go of your dreams. Never let others pull you away from your dreaming.

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Any other thing you want a simple point of view on ? Bring them out.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Groovy

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This was good.

Some people forget that if you follow all the so called "rules" you read in the site/bible/whatever. you end up loosing all the fun!!

And you triple the fun if you get rid about all the over-analysing crap like "Does this like me? Am I doing this right?"

If you don't care how you are doing so far, you'll ironically do better! And amuse yourself more.

Yes! It is all resumed in a few words. Have fun- This is the single most important and efficient tip I have ever, ever read! ;)
 

iFEEL

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Thanks for reading it and replying. It is good to know there are still people who have real life experiences and are not full of theory crap.
 

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Gubby said:
Hey, if you don't have fun what'dya want the woman for? XD
Lol, iFEEL was right. Nerds don't really grow into men, they just find a new videogame to play with. :crackup:

Really dude, you've hit the nail right on the head.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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iFEEL said:
I am seeing how some people still have not evolved from the nerds to men. When they stumbled upon seduction community they thought they found a totally new world. But they only changed CHANNELS. They are still nerds. How many guys do still refer women as sets ? Guys trying to compete with you AMOGs ? Too many. They still see women as ****ing aliens ! THEY ARE NOT !

Women are just emotional beings! Do you want 4 DVD's on what that means ? How about a bonus SLAP AROUND YOUR FACE for a change. SIMPLICITY WAS ALWAYS THE GREATEST THING YOU COULD DO. Women are emotional! They do not communicate with logic, they rely on emotions.

And you can not get all the women out there. You can not persuade each woman into feeling what you want her to feel. Some are happy in a relationship and you will not be able to change her feelings at any costs. Others are not pleased with what they got. You are able to get those with ease.

And yet again you still want to over complicate things. You still need 10 eBooks on how to make women feel various different emotions. It simple! Simplicity wins again. You give her simple pictures. No need for 1000 words of details on a simple thing like "I own a cat that pretends to be Superman". It already made an effect on her because she laughed.

Have you forgotten that women are emotional ? I believe right now you were thinking how can I put so many different emotions into pictures ( words describing them ). You are using your logic again and yet again want to over complicate. You as a human are not only able to speak. You have your whole body available. You express those emotions with your body, with your voice ( tonality, pitch ), your facial expressions and your body language.

Nerds. They search for all those "negative internal beliefs" when they have the biggest issue right in front of their nose. They want to over complicate things! They want to make sex seem like an exam out of neurology.

What else do you notice in nerds ? That feeling of wanting to be a part of something. They see somebody cooler than them or somebody with something they want. And they completely turn to be his SLAVE. ****! They ask him questions. He knows they just want to complicate. He shows them the finger and then they turn all emotional and start actually CARING what he thinks. **** that! Stop caring what other people think. When you are making out with that girl in the mall IGNORE the people walking by. There is just you and her!

Be in that ****ing moment! Do not stop to go somewhere safe! Confront it and live with it! It is only those moments you have in your life. I have noticed so many guys enjoying in a special moment but in a minute or two they start thinking "when will it end ? it is too good to end ". Dude... be in the ****ing moment. Stop thinking. Stop analyzing. START LIVING! START ENJOYING! BE IN THE MOMENT! LIVE THE MOMENT!

Do not talk big game! Act! You do not have to say a word what you are going to do JUST DO IT! When you say what you are going to do or if you ask if you can do this ( do not even try do to that ... ) you are just seeking for approval! Do the thing! Do not ask! Be a man of action.

Screw theory. Screw philosophy. Simplicity above everything! Do not take approaching chicks as a physics test! Make it fun. You are not proving to anybody that you can pass the test. YOU want the girl not some random dude that wants to see you approach. So make it FUN for YOURSELF and for NOBODY ELSE. You are the first person you think about! Do I want this ? How can I make this interesting for me ?

Anything you try. Do not even dare to give up on it! Do not give up on your dreams ! Fail, fail, fail, fail ! You can succeed after one fail, you can succeed after 10 fails, **** it.. you can even succeed after 1000 fails JUST DO NOT GIVE UP BECAUSE YOU CAN DO IT! Never let go of your dreams. Never let others pull you away from your dreaming.

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Any other thing you want a simple point of view on ? Bring them out.

Yes. Keep it simple! Now if each and every one of us in life could learn to do that..perhaps the world would be a better place.:cool:
 

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True to life ****. Live for the moment, do what you want because life is to short to have regret. Bump
 

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Each day is a gift, perhaps not the same gift.. a funny one. a sad one.. a dumb one. However it was given to all.. in some shape or form. So take it .. make.. it or break it. Just my thoughts.
 

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I would go beyond this to say, "find you're natural flow, whatever that is." For some it is following rules and bibles. For others it is completely freestyle. As long as you go with what works for you, it WILL be simple.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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