"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Simple yet effective perspective

Roly

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As we all know, with every good relationship, whether be it friendship or romantic, there has to be some GIVING on both sides for it to work or else the relationship sucks because it is not mutual.

Therefore, it is important to find something out there that has WAY more emotional relevance than gaining feminine approval.

I don't care if it is religion or God, finding that inspiring passion, going sky diving with your friends or going to ghetto ass restaurants in Mexico like Anthony Bourdain. Whatever it is, you must Find that THING. All guys are different, but you have to find that thing that just brings out those powerful emotions in you. Whatever it is find it.

Doing this can really benefit you as a man.

From a biological stand point, us Men have always been the warriors, the hunters, the curious thinkers of society. From a spiritual stand point, look at the likes of Jesus, Buddha or Muhammad, what did they have in common? They were all celebates and did not give a damn what women think of them because they found a way higher purpose.

Quality women are attracted to this, she'll be attracted to you for this because of your independence, your interesting traits you have acquired as a result of whatever it is that gave you a sense of emotional impact.

Find that THING ! and Share your joy to the world !!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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