"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I usually approach girls during rush hour to their offices by doing this

Me: Hi! you are cute, i want to know you, whats your phone number? (doing all this with smile)


Feedback please ?? I just can't think of any bullshlt, or something to fit the scenario and situation at that moment.


Girls who are interested in me will give her number and those who don't will brush off me with no mercy e.g. why? do I know you? (Those crap with shltty face)

The success rate is about 50-50.

Now their fvcking brush-off can't affect my emotion anymore.

Yet, I still haven't got any girlfriends.

My game is not good enough?

How can I improve my attraction game.

I think now I am a good book but with crappy introduction and cover

So, that is why girls don't have a chance to experience the good content inside bcuz of bad cover.


Feedback? please
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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well, have you gotten any dates from any of the numbers? If not then
i might think of abandoning your rush hour strategy.
 
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So you're approaching people during the busiest hour of their day with a boring "i think you're cute" line.

Hmm. Why do you think you're not getting good results from this?
 
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st_99 said:
well, have you gotten any dates from any of the numbers? If not then
i might think of abandoning your rush hour strategy.
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I used to get some, but yeah I just can't think of any other way to get phone number? Can you give me examples?
 
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Iceberg said:
So you're approaching people during the busiest hour of their day with a boring "i think you're cute" line.

Hmm. Why do you think you're not getting good results from this?
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What would you do if u were to be in this situation?

How do say it to get phone number?

Coz the fact is I will see lots of cute girls during this busy hours when I get to the train station.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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keemojung said:
I used to get some,
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ok, so your accomplished your goal of further interaction. So thats good.

Now maybe your date skills aren't that great? Or, its a numbers game so keep going.
 
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Your coming on TOO strong. Keep it simple: Hi, how are you today? Start getting to know her. If the conversation is going good and she seems interested. Then, ask for her number.
 
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Your coming on TOO strong. Keep it simple: Hi, how are you today? Start getting to know her. If the conversation is going good and she seems interested. Then, ask for her number.
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Can you show me some of your examples please?
 
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Imo there's nothing wrong with 'the you're cute' opener. You just have to build a little more rapport. In any situation it's a numbers game, so keep aproaching!
 
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If your looking for some trick or method, I dont really have any. It just has to come natural.

EXAMPLE:
Hi, How are you today? ..... I'm feeling great, My Name is..... I noticed you drive a subaru, how do you like it?... BLAH BLAH BLAH It was nice talking with you. WHATS YOUR NUMBER?

Women get hit on, asked out, & approached by guys with their "Smooth" Opening Lines ALL THE TIME. Especially the hot ones. Keep it simple and get to know who she is.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Change strategy. Don't go for phone number. Go for the whole 10 minute date, get them to drink coffee with you.
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I don't think that is possible since I mostly do my approach before going to work during rush hour in the morning.

I usually get the number and try to set up the date ASAP, if not possible, I move on.
 
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GameTime76 said:
If your looking for some trick or method, I dont really have any. It just has to come natural.

EXAMPLE:
Hi, How are you today? ..... I'm feeling great, My Name is..... I noticed you drive a subaru, how do you like it?... BLAH BLAH BLAH It was nice talking with you. WHATS YOUR NUMBER?

Women get hit on, asked out, & approached by guys with their "Smooth" Opening Lines ALL THE TIME. Especially the hot ones. Keep it simple and get to know who she is.
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Yeah, so that is why I don't use opening line since it is also lame and also the fact that I can't come up with a good one. So, gotta keep approaching but keep the conversation in a smooth way then.
 
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Hahaha! You're a working man, aren't you, keemojung? Work takes too much of your time, so you try your best to squeeze in an approach during your busy schedule. I'm the same way. It's difficult to approach a girl before she goes to work because she's pissed that she has to go back to her boring job. I usually just smile & nod first to which I either get an angry glare or a smile back(which is rare). If she smiles back then it's OK to talk with her. I got a short term relationship out of this, but when things went bad between us, I had to change the time I went to work to avoid her. Just a warning.
 
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It's too forward, and gives away your interest. Seems forced... Like they're in a dead-end position to say yes or no. They won't say yes if they don't know you, and you seem like a PUA. You have to conversate more than that. It has to be natural. If she seems into it, then you can progress from there. Don't make it seem like you're going out with the intention of getting numbers and dates. Just talk like you would with anyone, then ask for the number. You'll both get a little vibe about each other to see if you're interested in more. There has to be some kind of communication and rapport.

Things should always flow naturally. You don't want it to seem like you're forcing things, and looking for answers, or having ultimatums. Not in the pick up, not when you're dating, and not in a relationship. Everything should just happen as you vibe together.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This approach would be similar to a salesman going door to door and when the person answers the door, the salesman says:

"I've got this great product, its shiny and new will you buy it??


And your wondering why your not getting any success?







PIMP
 
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Pimp-sicle said:
This approach would be similar to a salesman going door to door and when the person answers the door, the salesman says:

"I've got this great product, its shiny and new will you buy it??


And your wondering why your not getting any success?


PIMP
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I see ur poing. So, if u were to be that salesman, how would u sell ur products then?
 
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It's too forward, and gives away your interest. Seems forced... Like they're in a dead-end position to say yes or no. They won't say yes if they don't know you, and you seem like a PUA. You have to conversate more than that. It has to be natural. If she seems into it, then you can progress from there. Don't make it seem like you're going out with the intention of getting numbers and dates. Just talk like you would with anyone, then ask for the number. You'll both get a little vibe about each other to see if you're interested in more. There has to be some kind of communication and rapport.

Things should always flow naturally. You don't want it to seem like you're forcing things, and looking for answers, or having ultimatums. Not in the pick up, not when you're dating, and not in a relationship. Everything should just happen as you vibe together.
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Yeah, but wasn't that convey the confidence and chicks love that, right?
 
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