"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Simple truth about women...

DjVelvet

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Been with my gf (a great girl) for 3 months, and we have sex about 5-6 times per week, pretty much she's all over me and sometimes, that makes me slightly bored. Although I have slight declining interest due to her being clingy towards me, I still like her. But she definately love me more than I do.

For a few days, i decided to try an "AFC" method DELIBRATELY.. against all DJ principles, just for the fun of experimenting whether she will lose interest if I do AFC thingees..

I call her like 9 times per day, show my love to her, telling her how i miss her and wanna meet her again and again, and show jealousy to every guys she encounter and blarblarblar...

True enough her interest lv decline a bit, i feel less warmth from her.

Hmm, then I up the challenge again, and true enough she's back.. all over me...

Girls... They really need game...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I've never heard of someone who tested it this way.

I had in the back of my mind that girls of higher value, I acted more AFC to and therefore they showed less interest because of the higher value and not me acting AFC.

It's good to have had someone test this. Good job!
 

DjVelvet

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Remulak said:
that's common sense to anyone who's been on this site for more than 2 days
I agree, but how many people manage to internalize it? Many DJs here know it, and when the situation arises, they throw the logics aside and became wussy...

This is experiment and experience we are talking about. Not logics.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DjVelvet said:
...Many DJs here know it, and when the situation arises, they throw the logics aside and became wussy...
But isn't that what you did; just to see what would happen? Wasn't logic enough?
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
But isn't that what you did; just to see what would happen? Wasn't logic enough?
Not enough, that's why i want to put the reverse on trial, and experience the outcome.
 

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about time you figured it all out in the middle of the desert
 

DjVelvet

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afrojiggles said:
about time you figured it all out in the middle of the desert
No sarcasm my friend. Figuring it out and actually doing it are 2 different things. Some do one and neglect the other, good example is me in the past.. I know challenge works but i will let it go at some point and suffered, because i have not internalized the correct mindset yet..

Minorities, if you are trying to bash, stop. If not, Comments are welcome. Sick of 'certain' forum bashers here.. somemore this is the mature section.
 
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