"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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iMat

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I need to lose a few pounds, so I can at least tuck in my gut, and maybe have a lesser round of a face.

I understand it will take time and determination, but anybody with some tips? Links maybe?

I want to create a routine to do every few days to slim down. I will try eliminating a few snacks here and there, but I'm going to keep my diet relatively the same (I'm not much of a fast food/dine outer, and I don't eat many proccessed off-the-shelf foods).

Thanks

--iMat
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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hcaz074

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Well you should first off all start weight lifting , and you should start doing some cardio often as well to burn the fat.
 

diablo

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Have you already looked at the Cutting Guide stickied at the top of this forum?

However, since you want "simple tips", here are 2:

1) Less calories out than in.
2) Proper and routine exercise.
 

Templeton

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Take a look at Charles Poliquin's German Body Composition training. Generally whole body workouts using upper/lower body supersets. Take a couple of weeks to work up to the required intensity. It's a tough routine.

This link tells you plenty although Poliquin does have a book on it which is easily found with a google search.

www.trulyhuge.com/news/tips63j.htm

You could do some cardio a couple of times a week but if you follow the routine correctly you shouldn't need to. I.e. if you are working hard enough after having gotten used to it.
 
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