"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ok so i was talking to this chic that ive been going well with for awhile.

atleast about 1.5 months and been out quite a lot.
anyway so the other day im at home and she calls me.
i didnt see her a week coz i was at work and then went to the gym that day so couldnt meet up with her.

anyway convo started ok.
thru the convo it got to last names.
i asked her what her last name was?
she got mad
she:"why would you ask me that?, thats abit personal!" soundin very upset
me: "wow ok i mean what i cant ask u ur last name now?" i was stunned
She: "no not yet.." and hung up.

like wtf!..
i dint bother hittin her back coz that just pissed me off..plus hangin up on me is capital punishment..no go zone.

what you guys think?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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That sounds kind of crazy. And by that I mean crazier than most women.

Any other reasons to think she's out of her damn mind?
 
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well, no.
usually shes pretty cool, laid back and funny even.

but it seems she has some touchy topics that she doesnt wanna go into? i dont know.
i asked around to some of the other girls i see and they didnt have any problem in telling me their last names.
 
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You just gave me a new conversation starter. lol
 
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hahahahhaha...damn you PIMP!!!!..usin my downfall as a convo starter..hahaha i can see it already..

so hey ladies..ive got a question i really would like a youngs womans opinion on.
yeh ive got an awesome friend, he's tall dark handsome, u shud meet him actually...but he asked a girl he was seeing her last name..and.....blah blah blah come home with me...ohyesyesyesyesohyesTHANKYOUSLICKAZZZohyessmmmmyessssss!!

damnit!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She is hiding something.

Sounds to me like she has some issues of trust.

or she has a funny last name and she doesn't want you to laugh at her. I once met some chick with the last name "Butt" and I tried hard not to laugh.
 
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slickaz said:
ok so i was talking to this chic that ive been going well with for awhile.

atleast about 1.5 months and been out quite a lot.
anyway so the other day im at home and she calls me.
i didnt see her a week coz i was at work and then went to the gym that day so couldnt meet up with her.

anyway convo started ok.
thru the convo it got to last names.
i asked her what her last name was?
she got mad
she:"why would you ask me that?, thats abit personal!" soundin very upset
me: "wow ok i mean what i cant ask u ur last name now?" i was stunned
She: "no not yet.." and hung up.

like wtf!..
i dint bother hittin her back coz that just pissed me off..plus hangin up on me is capital punishment..no go zone.

what you guys think?
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Well I am certainly confused by the whole post. You have been taking her out for a while is what I gathered from what you wrote.

You ask for her last name and she blows up.

Have you been fvckin?

From what you wrote it seems like you have been talking to her for a long long time. Investing a lot of your time into one lay. Taking her out for a long long time.

But no sex????

And then she acts up?

Maybe she was pissed cause you didn't contact her for that short while?

And what I find funny for me is that you didn't cuss her out and drop her snotty behind from your call register.

Look fellas us men...we have to quit putting up with bad behavior just cause the girl is pretty. That is no excuse for her to act shytty on you.
 
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hey bro..
yeh i know its wierd.
Well ive been hookin up with her and almost went all the way at her place when her flatmate walked in on us.
i havent had a chance since to go to her place or mine.
but we do hook up alot and i get tons of head, boob play etc.
usually she initiates coz i tease her and i use that inuendos stuff to get her in the mood without actually saying netn nasty and she then jumps me.."

so its not like she hasnt shown any interest.
anyway im not interested in trying to find out why she got mad, unless she calls and apologizes to which im not gonna take it easy on her.
she'll have to come to my place cook dinner n stay the night to make up for it me thinks..lol

i havent heard from her yet but i got my hands deep in 2 other chics so its keepin me busy...

again, im glad ive been blessed with this knowledge, to keep atleast 3 or 4 and consistently growing incase one acts up, drop it and fill it up with another..its awesome for confidence and i notice i dont really fear being just me around any of the chics coz if shes not keen, well i have two others that are only a matter of time till i find one more to replace her, back to 3! lol
 
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