"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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simple question..how should i go about this?

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So i just broke up with my gf of 6 months...not really a big deal, excited to be back in the game!
anyway there is this girl i am interested in but have never met. we have mutual friends and she added me on facebook the other day. i dont want to be a fb creeper and ask her to hang out on there never having met her before so my question is this...

should i simply ask our female mutual friend to introduce us? i know this friend thinks highly of me and often asks when we are hanging out and basically wants to fvck. i am not interested in the friend so would this maybe be a bad idea as she might not want her friend having me? how should i go about this?

thoughts please!! thanks!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yeah that's a bad idea. Your female friend might try to give a bad impression of you to her out of spite and jealousy. Even if she does introduce you there will be constant c0ckblock threat. It's happened to me before.

She added you right? I'd just message her something like "hey, have we met before? you're friends with xxx right?" Exchange a few messages, then say hey we should hang out some time, what's your number?". Then CALL (dont text) her a few days later.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Chickfight said:
She added you right? I'd just message her something like "hey, have we met before? you're friends with xxx right?" Exchange a few messages, then say hey we should hang out some time, what's your number?". Then CALL (dont text) her a few days later.
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There you go. She added you, so technically she is making the first move towards contact. You can now come back with what Chickfight said and take it from there. If you added her AND wrote the first message, that would be over the top. But because she added you, it goes you the chance to initiate a conversation.
 
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anyway there is this girl i am interested in but have never met. we have mutual friends and she added me on facebook the other day. i dont want to be a fb creeper and ask her to hang out on there never having met her before so my question is this...
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BEST way to play this, if you haven't already contacted her, is to just send her a message over FB being like "Sorry but do I know you?" It will put her on the defensive and immediately give you the power over the conversation, right off the bat she has to start justifying herself to you.

Don't say "aren't you friends with xyz?" Don't try to meet her on common ground like that, make her justify herself to you and why you should spend your time talking to her.

This has worked for me in the past.

Don't go through female friends if you have to. In fact, if you have female friends who have friends you want to meet, then you just get them to introduce you and cut them out of the equation ASAP so they can't fvck it up for you. They're your friends but they're still girls, they don't know any better.
 
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nice advice guys...worked pretty flawlessly i would say!



Brett April 11 at 11:16pm
please do tell me..have we met before

Remington April 11 at 11:19pm Report
umm.. i don't think so?

Brett April 11 at 11:21pm
ah ok so why did you friend me

Remington April 11 at 11:23pm Report
i can't remember.. ha, sorry!

Brett April 11 at 11:26pm
lol its ok im not mad. just curious as to whether you add strange guys all the time or if we had a special connection

Remington April 11 at 11:32pm Report
I actually just search for the creepiest guys out there, then add them.. not weird at all?

Brett April 11 at 11:38pm
im not one to judge...everyone has their thing. that being said i was just wondering if youd care to join me in my parents basement for a game of dungeons and dragons this friday?

Remington April 11 at 11:43pm Report
Hahaha, Sounds like my kind of fun... good thing I added you, yeah?

Brett April 11 at 11:45pm
girl you have no idea.

Remington April 11 at 11:48pm Report
Ohhhh girl.

Brett April 12 at 12:08am
whats your number?

Remington April 12 at 12:20am Report
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