"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Simple question: Do you wait for a girl to call you if they said they will or what?

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JCKey618

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Couldn't really grasp the question in the title, so I'll tell you what I mean.

Couple of days ago this girl I'm dating asked me if I could help her and her cousin with a car wash today. I said sure. Last night I called her and asked her when and where did I have to be today. She said "I'll let you know, baby."

Well, it seems like it is getting a little late....and I have family coming soon. Should I call her and see what's up or just wait for her? If she doesn't call soon should I just be like '**** it, i'll do something else' or what?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Think about it: You called for a time and place ....and you hung up the phone without a time and place.

You should have known the answer to your question last night.
 
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Eh, she's sick. Ma won't let her have company. I wish these females would tell things sooner.
 
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