"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Simple question: Do you wait for a girl to call you if they said they will or what?

JCKey618

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Couldn't really grasp the question in the title, so I'll tell you what I mean.

Couple of days ago this girl I'm dating asked me if I could help her and her cousin with a car wash today. I said sure. Last night I called her and asked her when and where did I have to be today. She said "I'll let you know, baby."

Well, it seems like it is getting a little late....and I have family coming soon. Should I call her and see what's up or just wait for her? If she doesn't call soon should I just be like '**** it, i'll do something else' or what?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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chili kat

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Think about it: You called for a time and place ....and you hung up the phone without a time and place.

You should have known the answer to your question last night.
 

JCKey618

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Eh, she's sick. Ma won't let her have company. I wish these females would tell things sooner.
 
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