"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Simple Q about Gunwitch
- Thread starter banGbro
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I'm pretty sure some pansy AFC type wrote the whole Gunwitch thing as an assignment for home-ec class. There's nooooo WAY that can be REAL right? RIGHT?banGbro said:Is gunwitch real?
PS: Try the state change that he talks about and find out for yourself if its real.
G-Theory said:I'm pretty sure some pansy AFC type wrote the whole Gunwitch thing as an assignment for home-ec class. There's nooooo WAY that can be REAL right? RIGHT?
PS: Try the state change that he talks about and find out for yourself if its real.
His method works pretty f*cking well but only one lone-wolf girls.
Also, I do end up with the number most of the time and do go on hang-out type of dates, but the rest of what he says does work.
Like, the whole thing is how to demonstrate that you are alpha and project sexual state WITHOUT having to be in some social environment where everyone knows you and likes you.
They go to every chick in the bar and push, and push, and wont stop bugging them until the chick finally gives in. They make me sick, cuz everytime a new chick comes around, they move in, and dont stop until they get her. Its a race. You dont have a chance sometimes, if they are around. They dont get numbers, or go on dates, they see a girl, c+f them, and bug them till their drunk enough, to say "fine, I'll go home with you, just leave me alone" I've lost more than a few chicks that I liked, and that really liked me, to this crap. The first time Im not around and they get too drunk, their done. Iv'e even gone to take a leak, and have one of them taking her out the door. Its that cutthroat. But, thats what I get for being a decent person, and wanting a girl to like me for me.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
http://www.bristollair.com/methods/authors/gunwitch.html
And you're right, if you just follow Gunwitch then you will only pick up "lone wolves" but if you combine his theories with others (I like his concept of State Changes and in fact, if you really need to get some now, lone wolves are easy prey) then you will definitely have some extra tools in your repertoire.