So I am fairly limited in my experiences with escalating from flirting to kissing to f-closing, which is why I posted this question. Just about every time I have kissed a girl, there was at least a little alcohol involved, or I had kissed her previously, so therefore each time there was relatively little anxiety to get over.
However tonight, I have a girl coming over to my house to smoke and hang out at my house.(I am in college and this is a cheap college job so no worries about work drama, plus she is moving away in a month) I have tried to flirt with her as much as possible at work when appropriate, and have gone to happy hour with her once before and kinoed as much as possible. Basically it seems my problem always is I never know if a girl is attracted to me physically, though I can always make girls laugh and giggle and I can always carry on a good conversion and be funny. So I basically have a very hard time building up the courage to go in for a kiss or to progress to very aggressive kino right before a kiss. My lack of experience in this area, makes it even worse, as I feel like if I go in for a kiss, she is going to give me a look as if I am crazy and she won't be expecting it.
So basically my question is, Whats the sign that you guys look for where you make up your mind that you go in for the kiss. What body language, or what situation. How aggressive are you, do you get closer and closer, and see if she reciprocates and leans in a little. Basically, assume I have 0 experience, give me any and all advice no matter how basic or simple. The ironic part is I have no anxiety with approaching or flirting or talking, just when it gets to more serious kino and kissing, especially in situations such as these where its not an explicit date, so she is less likely to expect it, which makes me creates more anxiety since its more likely I'll get severely rejected. Mostly since I severely lack experience.
However tonight, I have a girl coming over to my house to smoke and hang out at my house.(I am in college and this is a cheap college job so no worries about work drama, plus she is moving away in a month) I have tried to flirt with her as much as possible at work when appropriate, and have gone to happy hour with her once before and kinoed as much as possible. Basically it seems my problem always is I never know if a girl is attracted to me physically, though I can always make girls laugh and giggle and I can always carry on a good conversion and be funny. So I basically have a very hard time building up the courage to go in for a kiss or to progress to very aggressive kino right before a kiss. My lack of experience in this area, makes it even worse, as I feel like if I go in for a kiss, she is going to give me a look as if I am crazy and she won't be expecting it.
So basically my question is, Whats the sign that you guys look for where you make up your mind that you go in for the kiss. What body language, or what situation. How aggressive are you, do you get closer and closer, and see if she reciprocates and leans in a little. Basically, assume I have 0 experience, give me any and all advice no matter how basic or simple. The ironic part is I have no anxiety with approaching or flirting or talking, just when it gets to more serious kino and kissing, especially in situations such as these where its not an explicit date, so she is less likely to expect it, which makes me creates more anxiety since its more likely I'll get severely rejected. Mostly since I severely lack experience.