Simple basic Dj questions

[clueless61]

Hey, guys just askin a few simple questions ok.well.. friends girl has a friend who's single, she told her bout me and now the chic wants me to have her phone# and all her info, I email her and get her # from her, rather then gettin it from her friend, and make arrangements with her for the weekend as well, But now it would seem she wants me to keep in contact with her on a daily bases, I am been makin her Kinda anticipate it, and not know when I was gonna contact her but but more outta the blue, Is this Tactic Good? and when I take this girl out should I play up the C&F routine More or remain myself(Pretty C&F anyways).Where's a good place to take a Girl on a first date? and well she also has a baby bout 2 yrs old, be being fairly young, well too young for me to wanna have kids haha, How do i reactt to this and should I bail cuz she has a Kid? or to quick to say?
Thanks DJ's any reply would be great

 

[Climax]

hmmm...

But now it would seem she wants me to keep in contact with her on a daily bases, I am been makin her Kinda anticipate it, and not know when I was gonna contact her but but more outta the blue, Is this Tactic Good?

This IS a good thing, yes, u must NOT give her what she wants, when she wants, YOU make the rules, not her.

and when I take this girl out should I play up the C&F routine More or remain myself(Pretty C&F anyways).

C&F is always a good thing to have, so yes, use it, but not TOO much

Where's a good place to take a Girl on a first date?

Seeing that you have never met her before, go somewhere where the 2 of you can talk and get to know eachother, So lunch or dinner somewhere would be ideal, after the 1st date you can start being "creative" (this only applies because u have never met her before, in other cases, being "creative" on where u take her would be ok) So take her to a resterant somewhere (Not a cheap lower class one though, that gives a bad 1st impression of you), but also dont take her to the most expencive place... just the average reserant where u can talk and get to know eachother. If you or her might feel uncomfortable eating in front of one another, then take her somewhere where u can get a drink or 2 and talk, no need to EAT.

nd well she also has a baby bout 2 yrs old, be being fairly young, well too young for me to wanna have kids haha, How do i reactt to this and should I bail cuz she has a Kid? or to quick to say?

Dont make any decisions already... 1st meet her, get to know her, and THEN decide where you want to go from there.

Good luck...


Laterz...

 

[clueless61]

Thanks man, Anyone else have any advice?

 

[ketostix]

Have you seen what this girl looks like yet? If not she might not be too hot. Normally when someone "fixs you up" with a girl, theyre trying to do the girl the favor. But on the other hand being introduced to a girl by a friend is a good in. Point is you might not be attracted to her, so consider taking her someplace casul, like a coffe shop that you know. That way you won't be stuck with her for an hour or two over dinner and spend a lot of money. I don't mean to sound too scepticle and maybe you already know what she looks like..just a suggestion

 

[clueless61]

Haha Yeah, Good point eh, no sense sketchin bout this if I aint even attracted to her, from the sounds of it she's a cutie But who knows, like i said it is a friends Girlfriend hook my up and women have different views on beauty eh? thanks man