"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Simple and effective way of thinking

CaptainSaveAh0

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Just going to share some very obvious tips that i have been coming to realize lately.

Remember this , if you don't do it somebody else will .

Ex.
If you don't approach the girl , another guy will and you will never get her.
If you don't apply for that job position somebody else will.

Don't fill your head with negative thinking , just do it.
Mindset is one of the most important aspects in being a true DJ.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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RedZone

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Agreed. Negative thinking won't get you anywhere.
 

skinnyguy

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Yes. It's just that cold approach has never really worked for me. Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results right? I think cold approach is not appropriate for everyone. For some guys it's better to pull women who you already know through social circle or some kind of organization. Cold approach has made women so entitled and btchy
 
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