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A couple finally moved in together—but the boyfriend is already sleeping in the spare bedroom
She claims I'm not making her feel "at home."
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Simp allows chick to live with him, but she demands that her dog sleep in their bed
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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Women who allow dogs to sleep in the bed are not only a red flag but a deal breaker
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"Dog Bites Man." In bed.
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Bf = new step-dog-dad
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I don't think this qualifies as a simp. I think a simp is more a guy who gives money to women without getting sex.
This is more of a beta male or Average Frustrated Chump (AFC).
He owns the house, so he gets to make the rules. She isn't paying the mortgage and is only paying a small percentage of the utilities and HOA fees.
He has to hold the line with her on the house rules about the dogs. If she walks now because of it, he needs to consider it a win because he didn't get divorced from her and didn't end up in divorce court with lawyers. That's expensive, even for a childless couple.
If he holds the line on this issue, it likely means the end of the relationship. I don't see this as salvageable.
This is a good example of why I share Rollo Tomassi's view on non-marital cohabitation.
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This is more of a beta male or Average Frustrated Chump (AFC).
He owns the house, so he gets to make the rules. She isn't paying the mortgage and is only paying a small percentage of the utilities and HOA fees.
He has to hold the line with her on the house rules about the dogs. If she walks now because of it, he needs to consider it a win because he didn't get divorced from her and didn't end up in divorce court with lawyers. That's expensive, even for a childless couple.
If he holds the line on this issue, it likely means the end of the relationship. I don't see this as salvageable.
This is a good example of why I share Rollo Tomassi's view on non-marital cohabitation.
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #4 NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months. You are utterly powerless in this situation. NEVE…
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