Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Silverwex's Bulking Thread
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
silverwex
Master Don Juan
Also, im cutting six weeks before the 27th august to get cut for my hols in gran canaria (any of you guys going there this summer?)
I will seriously bulk up after summer - im aiming for about 1.5/2g protein per pound bodyweight.
One more thing, ive changed workouts but im still not gaining (ok diet is a massive part but still...)
Can anyone recommend a good 3 DAY SPLIT using free weights, a bench, power rack, dip bar, pull up bar, lat bar pulldown etc...
Thanks all.
silverwex
Master Don Juan
I tried different workouts but im still plateau-ing! strength gains have also come to a halt.
any tips? thanks.
btw im def NOT gonna stop working out, if i can get through times like this itll just make me better!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Squats 2 x 5
Box squats 2 x 4
Leg presses 2 x 5 (pick 2 of the three listed as long as one is squats)
Calves (your choice of exercise) 2 x 10
Wednesday:
Wide grip flat bench 2 x 6 (index fingers on the rings)
Decline medium grip bench 2 x 6 (pinkies on the rings)
Weighted dips 2 x 10
Upright rows or side laterals 1 x 10
Friday:
Dead lifts (rotate variations each week) 2 x 5
reverse hypers, pull thrus or glute ham raise 1 x 10-15
Bent over rows 2 x 4
Reverse grip narrow grip pull downs 2 x 6
Standing wide grip curls 2 x 8 (or your favorite curl here)
Try that for a few weeks. HEAVY!
other than that i think with semags routine you will at least make some strength gains!silverwex
Master Don Juan
So im still stuck at about 165lbs (damn electrical scales keep giving different results!) and about 22% bf (high i know but will cut soon).
Im not the strongest/biggest as my training probably hasnt been the best so from now on ill stick in my max lift and reps for some of those major exercises starting with:
SQUAT
66kg with 4 reps
My 1rm would be more but im not interested in 1rm's as they mean nothing to me at the moment.
DEADLIFT - STIFF LEGGED
66kg with 5 reps (form not the best)
Going back on creatine soon too.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
i dont know anyone how can do this but i have talked to a huge guy that looks like he can but only benches 90kg for reps....so his max is probably around 110-120kg. i heard from many huge guys in forums that their bench max is around 150kg or less. so i come to the conclusion that it is a lot easier to look like you can than to actually bench 400lbsOriginally posted by semag
*chuckles*
And how many times you seen a little guy puttin up 400 lbs on bench and 600 lbs on squat
...the point is, to move heavy weight, your body will get bigger.
oh, and i dont mean you semag with my rant i am talking to all the "wise" people with decades of training, great genetics, maybe some cycles and then talking **** about 500lbs bench. yes skinny guy you only need to increase your bench from 100lbs to 500lbs and you will be huge IT IS THAT EASY!!!!!!!!!!!!!
omg sorry again i didnt rant on you only on the guys who bench 500lbs and brag about it and talk **** to people i always needed to get this off my chest --->**** YOU
silverwex
Master Don Juan
MONDAY
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Squats
SL Deads
Bench
Barbell Curls
Dips
Chin Ups
WEDNESDAY:
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Shrugs
Bent Rows
Military Press
Deads
Pull Ups
FRIDAY:
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Squats
SL Deads
Bench
Barbell Curls
Dips
Chin Ups
I need bigger arms! And my arms tend to recover within 48hrs so ill see how this goes...
Comments? Double, Life, Semag?
Cheers.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.