"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Silly wannabe girl

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Met this 31 y.o. HB7.5 some weeks ago, talked for 10 mins and got her number. Then I found out she's on a dating site, funny.

Well, I texted her a couple of times, and she was always replying fast and giving more conversation. Good I thought. THen I added her on FB.

After some days I say lets go grab a drink, she does not reply. Some days later I make a small joke about her not replying to my invitation, then she says she forgot about it.
Some days later we text a bit more back and forth and then I suggest to meet, to what she does not reply.
Then I go: did you die?
she says: noooo, Im fine, it was just a joke.
me: so lets go grab a drink next Monday?
No reply.

I deleted her number, but what THE HECK?
A 31 y.o. woman, who is in an online dating site, talks to you, gives you conversation, gives you her number, accespts your request on FB...then you ask her out and she declines, twice.

what the heck?
Silly ***** really.

P.S.
I wonder where Brad (user from here) is. I'd like him to refresh me his belief about confident persistence...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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unless someone explains to me why she isn't a next,i would've definitely did the same thing by deleting her number.Girls love phones,texting,talking on them is so entertaining.any random guy could be her text/phone buddy, that's what they love.you tested her and she failed your test,so to me you did the right thing buah bye.some chicks in there 30's still act like teenagers.
 
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She's doing online dating. That says it all. If you think a girl doing online dating is more receptive, you're dead wrong. Girls doing online dating are less receptive than girls who are not actively on any dating sort of medium period.

The deal is that many girls on generic online dating sites (i.e. pof, okc, etc) have a plethora of issues you can choose from. They either love attention, have ridiculously unrealistic expectations and stay single through their entire 30's, etc.

Don't think too much of it. She's just an online dating barfly. She will window shop indefinitely until nobody wants her and then she will cling for dear life to any man who gives her attention past 40. Nothing more, nothing less.
 
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