"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So the last girl I banged it didn’t work out I got rejected. We don’t talk and I never see her at work

However I do see her besty co worker friend at work and apparently now I moved to her naiborhood so I saw this besty last night at the bar.

Pretty busy place, I ignored her, busy doing my own thing to the point Where I accidentally walked right up next to her at the bar. I could see peripherally she was looking up at me. I still didn’t acknowledge her.

Is this appropriate or awkward behavior on my part? I really don’t feel like it’s my job to say hello or give a fvck
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ignore her. Be honest with yourself, sounds like you want to talk to her so she can run back to her friend, hoping that she says "oh my god, he talked to my bestie, maybe I should contact that guy I rejected. Speaking to her bestie will give the woman who rejected you a big smile, because she knows your still thinking about her. If the woman who rejected you shows up the following week at the same bar, then you know she might be coming to check you out.
 
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I would have ignored her as well, just like you did. NOW, if she were to initiate convo with me first and say the first words I would have given her a "hey how goes it" and a nod but no more. No reason to give the two broads something to chat and snicker about next time they go pee pee together.
 
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you should've tried to smash and pretended you didn't already recognize her
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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