"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Stallionstud

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So the last girl I banged it didn’t work out I got rejected. We don’t talk and I never see her at work

However I do see her besty co worker friend at work and apparently now I moved to her naiborhood so I saw this besty last night at the bar.

Pretty busy place, I ignored her, busy doing my own thing to the point Where I accidentally walked right up next to her at the bar. I could see peripherally she was looking up at me. I still didn’t acknowledge her.

Is this appropriate or awkward behavior on my part? I really don’t feel like it’s my job to say hello or give a fvck
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mazer

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Ignore her. Be honest with yourself, sounds like you want to talk to her so she can run back to her friend, hoping that she says "oh my god, he talked to my bestie, maybe I should contact that guy I rejected. Speaking to her bestie will give the woman who rejected you a big smile, because she knows your still thinking about her. If the woman who rejected you shows up the following week at the same bar, then you know she might be coming to check you out.
 

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I would have ignored her as well, just like you did. NOW, if she were to initiate convo with me first and say the first words I would have given her a "hey how goes it" and a nod but no more. No reason to give the two broads something to chat and snicker about next time they go pee pee together.
 

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you should've tried to smash and pretended you didn't already recognize her
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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