"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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silly girls...YOU CONFUSE ME!

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she latches onto me like a leach and put her arms around me right infront of her bf...why would someone do this kind of thing (i dont think she likes me we are just very good friends)

she will do it whether her bf is around or not

she does it when her bf is around or not and what i mean is rubs up against me and puts her arm around me and **** and tells me how much she loves me... (does this about twice a day att school)

and waht happen is she will see me and instantly run over and be like COME WATCH MY GAME TONITE while she is litteraly rubbing up against me...or ither times she will just ruin up put her arm around me and be like I LOVE YOU (MY NAME HERE)

errr

how should i go about this??? what do you think she is feeling??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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GaryUranga said:
maybe shes just a touchy person? not everything is about mind games
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but when she tell me she loves me idk what to think :/ she does it once today i jist told her i know...but in a way it sounded as if she was saying it in a jokingly way..but serious at the same time you know??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There is a reason why everyone is saying she is a flirt.

Because she's a flirt. Don't feed her, just pat her on the head and move along to the next girl.

Next :up:
 
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