Silent Treatment?

[Fitters]

Met this chick about a 3 weeks ago. We went on 2 dates everything is good ; 2 base but no sex yet.
Anyways we set up for me to sleep over at her dorm next Friday. During th convo last night I think I said something about the way she dressed to the first date.

This morning I shoot her text wishing her Goodluck on this show she has been planning for a while now.

Here is the full convo :

Me: Hey Goodluck on the big day , hope all goes as planned.

Her : You too.

5 hours later I replied

Me: time of the month ?

Her : I'm not talking to you for the rest of the week. You're going to feel the silent treatment.

I was thinking about replying " alright cool , you know my number ".
But I think that feeds unto what ever game she is playing. Does this call for a NEXT or play it cool till I get the lay ?

 

[dustmuffin]

Why did you reply time of the month? That was rude and wasn't funny in the context it was used. She did go overboard being childish. Don't contact her. Let her contact you. Don't apologize. Just let it blow over.

 

[Jetleg]

don't reply. what you wrote was pretty stupid anyways, especially when she is so cold with her texts and you barely know each other. i would not even try to contact her anymore

 

[AttackFormation]

Reply inside the quote.

Met this chick about a 3 weeks ago. We went on 2 dates everything is good ; 2 base but no sex yet. Everything is cool according to you, remember that.
Anyways we set up for me to sleep over at her dorm next Friday. During th convo last night I think I said something about the way she dressed to the first date. If it was as humourless as the line you pulled here, I think it helped f*ck things up.

This morning I shoot her text wishing her Goodluck on this show she has been planning for a while now.

Here is the full convo :

Me: Hey Goodluck on the big day , hope all goes as planned.

Her : You too.
Cool.

5 hours later I replied

Me: time of the month ?
There's a reason why negs are out of date and imo were always a bad idea to begin with. It's because they promote being a senseless @sshole for no reason, and they're not funny. Using negs is retarded.

Her : I'm not talking to you for the rest of the week. You're going to feel the silent treatment.
If I was her I would probably just have deleted your number and moved on to the next guy I was dating. The fact that she said this tells me she is either still a little invested in you anyway, or she's power playing now and wants to add you to her orbital belt. Regardless, the only way forward now is to not contact her until she contacts you.

I was thinking about replying " alright cool , you know my number ".
But I think that feeds unto what ever game she is playing. Does this call for a NEXT or play it cool till I get the lay ?
Don't say anything back. She is not playing any game. You two already set up a date for friday so you had no need to text her in the first place, why in the world would you then go on to say something stupid like that while you're at it?

Let it pass, wait for her to contact you, move on, and get negs out of your system. That's my advice.

 

[GS750]

Here's a tip: Never say "that time of the month?" to any female. Just don't.

 

[Yewki]

Me: Hey Goodluck on the big day , hope all goes as planned.

Her : You too.

5 hours later I replied

Me: time of the month ?

Her : I'm not talking to you for the rest of the week. You're going to feel the silent treatment.

Wow.

You demolished your own frame when you sent "time of the month?". First of all, why do you care that she only responded with "You too." Why is her miniscule validation so important to you? You should really spend some time thinking about this. It's kinda sad. And even if it does bother you... why oh why would you let her know by acting like a b*tch? Double fail. Combo breaker.

Also do you routinely send needy crap like that good morning message? You get a pass only because you claim it was a big day for her, but you should otherwise... not do that.

 

[El Payaso]

I actually think that was pretty funny. Lmfao.

Move onto another girl without a word. She ain't even f*cked you yet.

 

[nismo-4]

Move on! You haven't f**ked and you're still caring? You know you can do better.

Case closed. Get out of my court.

 

[Fitters]

Goes to show just how many of you know game as you claim.
I said what I said because we usually made funny jokes throughout our convos - for her to make a complete 360 without a valid reason or expect me to know what I did was disrespect from her part hence I didn't give a fvck what I said to her/ how she would respond to that comment.


Anyways here is how the rest of the evening went about. She messaged and I gave a her a generic response. Later on she called and I ignored the call , she ended up calling again and I picked up told her i will call her back.
We spoke later on and I didn't even bother to bring up what happened earlier just talked about how i'mma sleep on her coach and let her treat me when I see her next week at her place ; she touched on the subject about me saying something to upset her ..I just let her know that a mature adult would state what offended them instead of resulting to childish games. ( Dropped a beg , " I definately don't see my self with a girl with such behaviour , too childish and draining for the stage that I am in life "

Anyways ultimately my guess was that she put out a test to see if I would message or call her asking what I did wrong and end up apologizing like a little *****. Stand your ground men !

 

[El Payaso]

Goes to show just how many of you know game as you claim.
I said what I said because we usually made funny jokes throughout our convos - for her to make a complete 360 without a valid reason or expect me to know what I did was disrespect from her part hence I didn't give a fvck what I said to her/ how she would respond to that comment.


Anyways here is how the rest of the evening went about. She messaged and I gave a her a generic response. Later on she called and I ignored the call , she ended up calling again and I picked up told her i will call her back.
We spoke later on and I didn't even bother to bring up what happened earlier just talked about how i'mma sleep on her coach and let her treat me when I see her next week at her place ; View attachment 27 View attachment 28 she touched on the subject about me saying something to upset her ..I just let her know that a mature adult would state what offended them instead of resulting to childish games. ( Dropped a beg , " I definately don't see my self with a girl with such behaviour , too childish and draining for the stage that I am in life "

Anyways ultimately my guess was that she put out a test to see if I would message or call her asking what I did wrong and end up apologizing like a little *****. Stand your ground men !

Nice one.

 

[Trump]

5 hours later I replied

Me: time of the month ?

Her : I'm not talking to you for the rest of the week. You're going to feel the silent treatment.

I was thinking about replying " alright cool , you know my number ".
But I think that feeds unto what ever game she is playing. Does this call for a NEXT or play it cool till I get the lay ?

Goes to show just how many of you know game as you claim.
I said what I said because we usually made funny jokes throughout our convos - for her to make a complete 360 without a valid reason or expect me to know what I did was disrespect from her part hence I didn't give a fvck what I said to her/ how she would respond to that comment.

Bro you freak out in the OP asking if you should NEXT her when she doesn't respond the way you like. Then when she responds the way you like, you come back and say guys on here know nothing about game.

Its easy to be Monday morning Quarterback.

 

[dustmuffin]

She contacted him and he didn't apologize. Several of the posters suggested this.

 

[Fitters]

Bro you freak out in the OP asking if you should NEXT her when she doesn't respond the way you like. Then when she responds the way you like, you come back and say guys on here know nothing about game.

Its easy to be Monday morning Quarterback.

I asked a general question wanting to know if anyone had been in a position where the girl fully let's you know she us giving you a silent treatment ...usually when passive people use thus technique they don't warn you. And frankly I wouldn't care if she replied or not.

I was just shocked how quickly everyone was saying I ****ed up and should move on.

 

[amazingswayze]

she waited exactly 5 hours to text you back. i hate that shvt. its so contrived

 

[gravityeyelids]

Think about this for a second. This girl sent you : "I'm not talking to you for the rest of the week. You're going to feel the silent treatment."

This b!tch is psycho. Who texts that to someone theh dont even kmow. This was not a sh!t test. This was basically her coming out and saying "im a controlling, low quality girl and you should know that its only going tk get worse for you." She sent you this kind of sh!t BEFORE YOUVE EVEN HOOKED UP WITH HER. are you fvxking insane? This is not a girl you want to either get to know OR stick your **** inside!

Go find a cute little girl-next-door type brunette that will fvxk you right, make you breakfast after, and NOT send you psycho texts and make your life more difficult.

 

[Fitters]

Think about this for a second. This girl sent you : "I'm not talking to you for the rest of the week. You're going to feel the silent treatment."

This b!tch is psycho. Who texts that to someone theh dont even kmow. This was not a sh!t test. This was basically her coming out and saying "im a controlling, low quality girl and you should know that its only going tk get worse for you." She sent you this kind of sh!t BEFORE YOUVE EVEN HOOKED UP WITH HER. are you fvxking insane? This is not a girl you want to either get to know OR stick your **** inside!

Go find a cute little girl-next-door type brunette that will fvxk you right, make you breakfast after, and NOT send you psycho texts and make your life more difficult.

This actually crossed my mind today. I will just go though 1 more week , if I can't bang at her place then I will hang up the gloves and run.

 

[Yewki]

Goes to show just how many of you know game as you claim.

I was concerned for your game because it didn't seem up to par. I didn't realize you were playing miniature golf though. Just try not to hit the ball into the parking lot and you'll be fine.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

So you never ask a girl if she's on her period in any way possible unless "the moment" permits it. Had a chick I asked that to several days ago and she's like "omg no. Don't you see how bad that is???" She started saying how she was nauseous for some reason and I made a joke about morning sickness getting to her. She just gave me a look like "oh please." And we are still pretty cool w/ each other.

It depends on the girl, her mood, and your relations with her. It's better if you don't say it, but you can if circumstances permit.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Here's a tip: Never say "that time of the month?" to any female. Just don't.

agreed