"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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me and this girl were flirting in class last friday and it was going great. she was giggling, smiling and acting like a little girl. seriously like a little girl, she was touching me alot, putting paint on my arm, throwing sh*t at me. it almost actually got to the point where it was annoying. it couldnt have been going better. but then i couldnt have f**ked things up more. i dont even wanna say what i did, but ill tell you that i crossed the line and was one of the stupidest things ive ever done. (non-sexual)

so yesterday im like "hey havent seen you all day", she says "good keep it that way, and im gonna get you back for what you did" along with a little smirk. so later i bumped into her, she says dont touch me! .. today i didnt even try to talk to her cuz she looked kinda pissed. so i guess shes giving me the silent treatment. i know the obvious answer "move on and forget her". but i see her every day, and ide like to stay social with her even if we're just friends. basically what im asking is should i try and apologize or should i deal with the silent treatment until she talks to me?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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****y n funny

This happens sometimes. It happen to me alot before. I've tried different things like apologize, forgeting her or just that specific incident.
The best thing from my experience is to handle it with ****y and funny.
When a girl gets mad. I use a simple DYD style comment.

Me: Awwww, did I hurt the little girl's feelings. Awww, come here....

(if her friend is close by and usually if she has any friends I've game them to a point where they like me)
Me: (to HB friend)give your friend a hug

or if her friend isn't there

Me: (Smile like I do to my little cousin) Take a joke, honey.

Truly (unless you embrassed her hardcore in front of all her friends or something) if she doesn't stop being mad, she is worth your time 'cause she is truly just a little girl.
 
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The Comeback Kid said:
This may help:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=100296
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yeah ive seen it before. im keen on how to GIVE the silent treatment but dont know how to deal with it if it's given. thanks marvel, im considering doing some sort of variation to that. ide imagine she was pretty embrassed though :rolleyes:

anyway im sure SOME of you have been in some sort of similar situation, if you can share a successful story/advice that would be great. thanks
 
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TheMan425 said:
i dont even wanna say what i did, but ill tell you that i crossed the line and was one of the stupidest things ive ever done. (non-sexual)
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How do you expect to get advice when you don't even tell us what you did?

Check that link again. Step 4 or something like that mentions that it is a waiting game.

She is playing games. Act like her giving you the silent treatment doesn't even bother you...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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^true, i think im gonna just stick with that. i gave her a wet willy with purple paint. :crackup:. i know what your thinking..and trust me im thinking the same thing right now. dont ask me why, because even i dont know:confused: . ive considered getting a large man to b*tch slap me, but i dont think that'll get me anywhere. so yeh, i think im just gonna let her chill out and do what she has to do. thanks
 
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