"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Silent Rejection aftermath - In need of advice

wifehunter

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Young women in university are beyond fickle.

Think of it like the line at McDonalds: You want ketchup with those fries? Yes. You want ketchup with those fries? No.

Here's what you did: You want ketchup with those fries? Hmmm. I'll get back to you in 2 days.

Two days later the fries are a distant memory and she's thinking WTF? So yes, strike while iron is hot.
Or just walk, cause they always want what they can't have.

No fries for you, lady! (Soup nazi voice)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Kaiki

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Dear SoSuave forum members
I am really thankful for all your responses - especially those pointing out my weekness (not acting like a man). Thats a kind of feedback I need to focus on right now.

As for my story
Still no message. I had seen her few times but beside greeting there was no communication. She was trying to get my attention on few classes, but well .. I felt like taking bait will be playing along her little game. So here I am: Ignoring her most subtly I can. And to be honest I feel awsome now =D

But I have another question about this case.
Its exactly like @BetterCallSaul stated - I want to things on my terms.And leaving at this point is imo giving her "power of last word" - I hate idea of not ending this on her terms.

Guess you wasnt interested in me same as I was in you. No hard feelings and wishing you best. Kaiki
Tried my best to make assertive ending line. What do you think about it?
 

icantgetlaid

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Dear SoSuave forum members
I am really thankful for all your responses - especially those pointing out my weekness (not acting like a man). Thats a kind of feedback I need to focus on right now.

As for my story
Still no message. I had seen her few times but beside greeting there was no communication. She was trying to get my attention on few classes, but well .. I felt like taking bait will be playing along her little game. So here I am: Ignoring her most subtly I can. And to be honest I feel awsome now =D

But I have another question about this case.
Its exactly like @BetterCallSaul stated - I want to things on my terms.And leaving at this point is imo giving her "power of last word" - I hate idea of not ending this on her terms.

Guess you wasnt interested in me same as I was in you. No hard feelings and wishing you best. Kaiki
Tried my best to make assertive ending line. What do you think about it?
Don't even acknowledge it. Move on, approach other girls.

Wait for her to bring up the subject to you. If she doesn't, act indifferent.
 
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