Skyline
Master Don Juan
Anyone ever get called this before? I've gotten this multiple times, including today, and it kind of puzzles me.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"Silent Psycho/killer/assassin" type.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Between_The_Lines
Master Don Juan
Maybe your sense of humor is a bit too dark, maybe you're overdoing the eye contact thing, maybe you need to stop donning black trench coats, I don't know what it is, but carefully think back to whatever preceded that observation, and tone that down just a little - unless most or all of the girls saying this have gone on to bang you. If ain't broke, don't fix it.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
You see that's the thing... I've been called this while working by co-workers whom I would consider very masculine like my boss and these guy's who are/were felon's. I don't talk that much when I work unless I have something to say or I'm spoken too and outside of work I don't wear anything dark or "emo" so I doubt it's that. I've longed since tried to abandon this whole "silent thing" since I used it almost all of the time in my AFC days but maybe I was doing it wrong back then...Between_The_Lines said: