"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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triplekaioken said:
i don't get it?

well actually i do, im pretty sure i have done this?

'i'll chill in the club, all cool, talking to my friends, not paying attention to the girls, thinking 'meh yeah what the hell, they are nothing special'

nothing happens... in that quote you put how the handsome guys rush to the girls and they reject them...but the chill out, patient guy magically has the 2 girls on his arms? am i missing something here?
That was a quote from Pook. And yes, it's somewhat of a brain teaser. He doesn't go into to too much detail about why or how it works. I guess that's up for our interpretation. As I mentioned, I've seen it work, been on both sides of it. I've witnessed the good looking guy throw out game only for the girl to go for the not as good looking, cool and composed guy. Maybe the first guy's game wasn't up to snuff or maybe the reserved guy just had a vibe she liked, an aura about him. I don't know why it seems to work sometimes, but not others. I have seen it in action though, so, I can't go against it, but that doesn't mean it's easy to explain.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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