"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Silence , Distance and calling her out on her bull****

Atom Smasher

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Call out and punish in a detached, positively ruthless way.

Enjoy respect.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I noticed this and have tried it especially with younger women, they purposedly trying to cause fights and when I respond in a more agressively tone they seem to get turned on by it.
Its not about turning them in or off, it’s about respecting yourself and letting her know you wont tolerate bs. Can’t advise a man what to do or not do when they get respected, some men walk away and go no contact, others call them out on it.

Personally, I will crush a girl until she cries if she shows disrespect. If she does something drastic, I will ghost.

Bottom line, do it for yourself. Don’t do it for her.
 
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