"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Could someone out here possibly give me an idea how to identify a woman who is flighty?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Here is a short list

1) She does not return calls.
2) She stands you up.
3) She talks alot about past boyfriends.
4) She does not reveal much about herself.
5) She does not keep her word or promises.

Number 1 and 2 are signs of low IL. They are also indicators of flakiness.
 
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Paradox,

Thanks for the advice and quick response.
 
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add to paradox's list:

when she starts asking for money.
calls her friends constantly while with her
 
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a few more:

their karma gets damaged and you can notice, even by just laying next to her.

the sparks in the eyes are gone.

her body changed freqeuncy
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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Originally posted by Paradox
Here is a short list

1) She does not return calls.
2) She stands you up.
3) She talks alot about past boyfriends.
4) She does not reveal much about herself.
5) She does not keep her word or promises.

Number 1 and 2 are signs of low IL. They are also indicators of flakiness.
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Not returning calls could just mean you have latched onto a rules girl

All the others are definatly signs of low interest.

Just go with your gut man. You will be suprised how often your intiituon is right
 
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