"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DoubleA

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Could someone out here possibly give me an idea how to identify a woman who is flighty?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Paradox

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Here is a short list

1) She does not return calls.
2) She stands you up.
3) She talks alot about past boyfriends.
4) She does not reveal much about herself.
5) She does not keep her word or promises.

Number 1 and 2 are signs of low IL. They are also indicators of flakiness.
 

DoubleA

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Paradox,

Thanks for the advice and quick response.
 

FratAndDiddy

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add to paradox's list:

when she starts asking for money.
calls her friends constantly while with her
 

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a few more:

their karma gets damaged and you can notice, even by just laying next to her.

the sparks in the eyes are gone.

her body changed freqeuncy
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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AgonyUncle

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Originally posted by Paradox
Here is a short list

1) She does not return calls.
2) She stands you up.
3) She talks alot about past boyfriends.
4) She does not reveal much about herself.
5) She does not keep her word or promises.

Number 1 and 2 are signs of low IL. They are also indicators of flakiness.
Not returning calls could just mean you have latched onto a rules girl

All the others are definatly signs of low interest.

Just go with your gut man. You will be suprised how often your intiituon is right
 
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