Ive compiled some of the behaviour Ive noticed that shows youre about to be Ghosted. Now I'm a single dad of two children so obviously my demographic is moms aswell. I believe most of these women have provider boyfriends who live with them , but they dont mention him one bit, they probably argued the day before, and she doesnt want to lose his resources. 3 years ago it was your fault you were ghosted I do not believe this is the case anymore. I believe its because they are all stuck with beta boyfriends, and worried they will be stranded.
1) Messages of high interest that are the length of your phone, before you've even had s*x or the 2nd meet? This is not a good sign anymore, ive never found it to be a good sign when a woman is overly interested?
2) Good morning messages of high interest way to early in the relationship.
3)Messages at super early AM or late PM.
4) speaks like youre the man of her dreams
5) cant get her alone in the evening.
6) makes excuses to DM only, not accept your call.
7)Will allow the freakiest stuff but wont allow the D.
8) never has a family member who can watch kid(this is bs, more like her chap is at home)
8) says stuff like "took you long enough to ask me out" OR "dont worry I wont scare you off by keep messaging" (is this a rationalising she has a chap?)
9) accuses you of weird stuff like "we dont seem to be messaging well" (when we have) or "youre not concentrating on us are you" (comms have been perfect).
All of the above signs have never been good for me, its usually resulted in the chic leaving a message on read within 2 days, and most likely fixing it with her chap. I do not trust high interest at all anymore till she an established chic.
I will now work on my own communication, there will be very ltd comms, until I get the kitty, and I will want to make plans ultra fast. No idle chit chat anymore, no playful/smooth comments till shes established, fck all.
Another mistake Ive made is making qualifying statements, if the chic thinks you have any standards she will just ghost, I will save these comments till after shes a plate.
Hope that helps.
1) Messages of high interest that are the length of your phone, before you've even had s*x or the 2nd meet? This is not a good sign anymore, ive never found it to be a good sign when a woman is overly interested?
2) Good morning messages of high interest way to early in the relationship.
3)Messages at super early AM or late PM.
4) speaks like youre the man of her dreams
5) cant get her alone in the evening.
6) makes excuses to DM only, not accept your call.
7)Will allow the freakiest stuff but wont allow the D.
8) never has a family member who can watch kid(this is bs, more like her chap is at home)
8) says stuff like "took you long enough to ask me out" OR "dont worry I wont scare you off by keep messaging" (is this a rationalising she has a chap?)
9) accuses you of weird stuff like "we dont seem to be messaging well" (when we have) or "youre not concentrating on us are you" (comms have been perfect).
All of the above signs have never been good for me, its usually resulted in the chic leaving a message on read within 2 days, and most likely fixing it with her chap. I do not trust high interest at all anymore till she an established chic.
I will now work on my own communication, there will be very ltd comms, until I get the kitty, and I will want to make plans ultra fast. No idle chit chat anymore, no playful/smooth comments till shes established, fck all.
Another mistake Ive made is making qualifying statements, if the chic thinks you have any standards she will just ghost, I will save these comments till after shes a plate.
Hope that helps.
