Signs to look out for from overfriendly HB?

[kudjy Piitb]

hey

I was wondering if anyone had some advice about what signs to look out for from overfriendly hot girls who give off the impression they're serious flirt?

I met this chick who i know chats to loads of guys and looks a little slutty (wears lots of make up, flirts outrageously with any male attention she gets etc) or maybe just insecure, i don't know.

Either way I know there is a list of IOIs which as a general rule of thumb which indicates interest from her part.. but if a girl is like this, how does one distiugiush interest from just overfriendly flirting with every other guy she meets?

 

[JJMcLure]

Do a search on "attention wh0re".

And if she is one, save yourself a lot of time and headache. In brief: they're after your attention, not you (and any other guy can supply it just as well - she does not consider you special). Yes, they will flirt with guys they're not interested in and would not consider getting with. Yes, they give the same IOIs to lots of other guys too. Yes, they can make it seem as if it's real for just YOU. Yes, they will lead you on with no concern for your feelings and drop you if they feel like it.

 

[kudjy Piitb]

ahh i see. yes i suspected she was an attention *****. i've seen her before and just pretty much ignored her even though she looked over at me and such looking unimpressed.

i didn't want to validate her. this is the 3rd time i've seen her and i made the move to talk ''innocently'' with her, but before i approached i was positioned next to her but i didn't make eye contact just looked straight ahead like i didn't notice her but i could see out of the corner of my eye she kept looking over at me trying to coerce me to talk to her but to no avail in her mind as i kept looking straight ahead.

she'd still be a good lay though.. just don't know what signs i should be looking out for. I probably wouldn't feel comfortable going out with her for anything relationship wise given her male seeking attention attitude.

seems nice enough though personality wise. is it probably too difficult to tell if shes actually interested because he'll give out the same IOIs to every other guy she meets?

 

[drift king]

i've had a similar experience dude.. don't know what is the best way to play it to be honest. what would one do if you get her number but she gives you some hassle in getting it.

i dont' think calling her is a good idea if you know shes not going to reply.