Fellas, in general what are some signs that a woman gives out to show she is interested in a man and all? For example, theres this girl in class and last week(on V-Day) I bumped into her somewhere and while in line I wuz chattin with her and throwin in sum C+F and everything, she wuz smilin/laughin the whole way. Since then in class i been avoiding to her to see what she'll do. So far she sat next to me today and then when the class was walking she was standin next to me, but she did not say anything.. Fellas what should I do in this situation to get the number? Asking the number for hw is out of the question since there is really none in this class and there really is no studying in this class..
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Signs that a woman is interested
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
So far you have conjured in her mind a good image of yourself. You don't want to ruin it by acting like a wuss. Keep the posture that you maintained during your C&F encounters. You also gotta act fast before she loses interest. Propose an invitation to a particular place (cinema, concert, coffee, pub, night club) at a particular time. I stress particular because you do not want to be brainstorming after it is agreed upon that you and her are going out. You also must convey the offer in a manner that says that she is missing out by not going and that you got alternate plans. If she says YES, then naturally she would give out her number because how else would you two meet up.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
i think there is a thread in the archive section with the EXACT SAME TITTLE. Do a search next time, or read the DJ bible
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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ask........
Hey,
I agree, you must move fast before she looses interest.
Ask her out.................
cave dweller
Hey,
I agree, you must move fast before she looses interest.
Ask her out.................
cave dweller
I know what u mean but remember semester does not end till like beginning of June. If we go out and things happen, word will end up goin round class, and I dont want the whole world knowing my business and all... any other alternatives u guys have?
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seems like you're not taking our advice. get the f outta here and do it on your own.
Take the number... it will atleast show that you are interested and you can go out for coffee or something. Find out if she is worth knowing. It is very rare that a girl will keep on showing interest if you don't show any. Don't worry about what others will think, most probably they are thinking that you are good friends. It would be different if they saw you guys toungin each other. Many ppl don't care about who is going out with who if you are in college. If you are in high school then you will be the envy of guys who want to get in her pants... Remember not to sound/look like you might be or become clingly...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
What's happening here? You have a breif intelude with the girl and then you completely ignore her? Why? I mean at this point you should be on a talking base with her at least.
I don't think a stand off was the right way to go in this situation. If she sits next to you, it's a perfect reason/opportunity to talk to her. Why would you pass on it?
I don't know about standing next to you afterwards though, by that point I think It would have been akward, because of avoiding her before.
Fortunately they'll be a next time. Go over and talk to her. It really doesn't matter what you say but you'll never get there if you don't start.
People all in your buisness... who gives a f*ck what other people think? Grow up, be a man.
I don't think a stand off was the right way to go in this situation. If she sits next to you, it's a perfect reason/opportunity to talk to her. Why would you pass on it?
I don't know about standing next to you afterwards though, by that point I think It would have been akward, because of avoiding her before.
Fortunately they'll be a next time. Go over and talk to her. It really doesn't matter what you say but you'll never get there if you don't start.
People all in your buisness... who gives a f*ck what other people think? Grow up, be a man.
LADawg49,
It is time for you to decide if this girl is worth pursuing or not. Ask yourself if she is good enough for you. If you detest being seen with her in public, then forget about her even though she has the likes for you. In the end, you only do what you want to do.
Just My 2 cents.
It is time for you to decide if this girl is worth pursuing or not. Ask yourself if she is good enough for you. If you detest being seen with her in public, then forget about her even though she has the likes for you. In the end, you only do what you want to do.
Just My 2 cents.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.