"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Signs She's INTERESTED

Cod3r

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Sup fellas,

I've been reading and alot of you ask things like, "is she interested?" and making small things out to mean some sort of attraction when in actuallity its probably nothing or mere curiousness. When a female is ATTRACTED or INTERESTED in you a few things have happened in my experience, there are things that are not listed here, but here are the repettetive ones that ALWAYS happen with every girl that has shown interest or attraction aka either I finished them off or I wasn't interested but it was up to me to decide because they were attracted...

1. Eye-Contact --> This is overlooked many times, and i'm not talking about the type of EC where you're freaking her out and she's just looking at you because you keep looking at her, I mean multiple EC where before you look you can see her all up in your face and when you meet, she keeps it for a while and then looks down... rinse and repeat...

I have been in class and rinsed and repeated this EC for over hours, constant replication, over and over again, same thing.... Look, meet eyes, look away. If you get that she's interested, go talk to her NOW...

2. Agrees with everything you say --> This one is actually funny, if you're in a situation where you are either in a group she's involved in, in class, at work, whatever.... when you say anything she's always in agreement. I mean ANYTHING. You'll always notice her taking your side and even defending you on things you say... Test it out, even say something completely untrue or off the wall and she'll still stick up for you...

I told a group of people that Mercedez Benz owned Toyota Car company and everyone was laughing but this one girl (whom i later was involved with) agreed to the depths of hell, even went on google to prove it. When she saw I was wrong, she agreed with me that we heard it 'somewhere' too funny...

3. She'll always be around you --> This is almost as obvious as it gets, everytime you look up SHES THERE ! Even if its really non-chalant, she's just always in your vicinity ! This covers multiple phone-calls for seemingly stupid reasons, "hey do you have that pencil i gave you in class ?? I can't find it" haha... Always is in contact with you somehow,...

4. Offers you chances to get in contact with her --> This is SOO overlooked and almost a GUARANTEE of a girl who is interested. She'll say things like...

"yeah i've got nowhere to go this wknd"
"Ohh let me see your phone"
"Did you see that movie ___, I want to see that bad, my friends r all busy"
"Hey lets exchange numbers, so if I miss a class/work/ect.. u can help me out"

I've had sooooo many of these and they are classic for an interested girl. I remember I was asking for the number of one girl at work and I didn't know how to spell her name, and before I knew it another girl ((whom i was REALLY interested in and running game)) took my phone and said, "I'll put it in" and then proceeds to put her # into my phone and then call her # from my phone so she could have my number.... uh uh uh lol

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Now, using one of these alone you can't really say 'SHES INTERESTED' but if you get even 2 of these things she's most likely interested and you should proceed to run your game further. When a girl likes you she CANT cloak it, its not complicated in figuring it out... its usually pretty obvious, if she's playing hard-t0-get, she may be curious, but not interested.... A girl who is attracted to you already displays these signs... at least IME


-Cod3r
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Jack McCrack

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It's as simple as:

A) You engage

B) She engages back
 

ScrewIt

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Cod3r said:
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Now, using one of these alone you can't really say 'SHES INTERESTED' but if you get even 2 of these things she's most likely interested and you should proceed to run your game further. When a girl likes you she CANT cloak it, its not complicated in figuring it out... its usually pretty obvious, if she's playing hard-t0-get, she may be curious, but not interested.... A girl who is attracted to you already displays these signs... at least IME


-Cod3r
yea, especially if texting/chatting online/ email...a high IL girl will almost always immediately respond when she can. They cant ignore a feel good emotion, but guys are fully capable of self control in this situation.

Ill have to agree on this, I can say the same. Aside from #1 being obvious, ime 2, 3, 4 will definitely happen especially if she has extremely high IL. And when she sees you she's always excited, with a big smile on her face.

But these are for sure in the initial stages of dating a girl, after awhile things will go differently.
 

lordson

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this sounds an awful lot like an experince jsut from ONE girl to me

the EC thing is probalby true though
 
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