"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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signs she wants you to put the move on??

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sportf190

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hey guys im ur avergae guy tryin to get some tips .... i was just wondering wut are some of the signs girls give to let you know they want you to kiss them... i normally when im rady look like an idiot and just laugh at them and say hey wuts up lol then when they look and laugh i just kiss them but i need a new way to kiss them and the signs to know .... because i look stupid doing this lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Skilla_Staz

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Generally if you're cuddling and she looks up at you, thats your cue. Also, you can initiate it by caressing the side of her face with your hand, lifting her chin with your bent index finger, just start slowly kissing on her neck, whispering in her ear, etc.

Generally, if you're cuddling with a girl, shes down for a kiss. There are a few exceptions, but by this age, they are very rare.
 
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yahh i wish i had that usually im in my car with a girl so i never get the chance to cuddle or any of that even though taht would be alot easier... so pretty much i have to act stupid then just throw a move on them which sucks cuz i look like an idiot but it works for me some how lol.... so say ur in a car with a girl and u cant really cuddle do u just take ur hand and kiss her?
 
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move for the shoulder first, then the waist, if she doesnt mind you touching her waist, take a kiss and maybe u will get more
 
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